萨米亚致家长们的一封信

Dear Parents, Samia here…

各位亲爱的家长，我是samia

I’ve decided to share some important notes with youabout your child and the blessing of having them in our life.

我想跟你们分享一些关于孩子的讯息，以及他们出现在我们生命之中的祝福。

The way I see your child, it’s MAGICAL! The presence of your child is ablessing to everyone and me. We want you to know how much joy we are havinghere getting to know your precious child. 

我认为孩子就是魔法。孩子的出现对我们每个人来说都是祝福。只有当我们认识到自己的孩子有多么宝贵时，我们才会知道自己会有多么喜悦。

As parents, we can profoundly influence thedirection of our children’s lives by the words we say to them. Yet many parents fail to do so. “Oh, my kids know that Ilove them,” a lot of parentssay. Maybe so, but your children need to hear those words of blessing in theirlives. And the good news is that it is not difficult to change the tone aroundyour home. You can begin speaking positive truth into your children’s lives any time you want.

作为家长，我们会通过与他们沟通和交流的语言去影响孩子未来的生活方式。但是目前，很多父母在这方面做得并不够好。

有人会说“哦，我的孩子知道我很爱他”，也许确实如此。但是你的孩子需要在他生命中亲耳听到这些祝福的话语，并且这些祝福的话语并不会改变你们家里的氛围和基调。你可以开始在任何时候告诉孩子们那些正面积极的真理。

For instance, when you drop our kids off atschool, before they even get out of the car, remind them, “You are blessed today. You are my favorperson in the world.”

举个例子，当你去送孩子上学，在他们下车之前，提醒他们“你今天是受到祝福的，你是这个世界上我最喜欢的人！”。

Parents, you can also do something likestart to express yourself to your child. The expression of love and pride willaffect them in a good way if you take the time to communicate with your child.Embrace those beautiful moments because there are growing so fast.

家长们，你们也可以做一些事情，比如开始向你们的孩子表达自己。如果你真的愿意花些时间与孩子沟通，那么你的爱与自豪的表达将会以一种很好的方式去影响他们。珍惜这些美妙的时刻，因为他们真的成长得太快了。 

Because you want to tell your child how youfeel! Even if 'I love you' is something you say every day.

即便是你每天说得只是“我爱你”，你也要时时告诉你的孩子你感觉怎样。 

Express your love and pride, combined withthe wish and dreams you have for their future.

表达你的爱与自豪，再加上你对他们未来的祝愿。

Share what you've noticed recently abouthim or her.

与他分享一些你最近在他们身上留意到的细节。 

How has she grown, what positivecharacteristics do you see emerging. Describe what you enjoy doing together.This will mean a lot to your child, and it will help with your relationshipwith your child.

他们长大了多少，你在他们身上看到了什么样的正面的性格，说说你跟他们在一起最享受什么，这一切对你的孩子来说都意义非凡，并且会帮助改善和提升你与孩子之间的关系。 

Be specific when you describe what makesyou proud. Words will be like nourishment to your child when he or she hearsthat.

当你在与孩子分享那些让你很自豪的时刻时要精准一些，这将会成为他们成长时期最好的滋养。

Always share a few positive memories thatmean a lot to you personally with your child. Your stories will communicatetruth in a way that's more memorable to your child than any singularcompliment.

要一直跟你的孩子分享一些对你来说意义很大的那些正面美好的回忆，你的分享会带出一些真理，这对孩子来说，也会比那些单一的赞美更有纪念意义。

Share your highest wish for them; this isan opportunity to share your confidence in your child, as well as the beliefsthat continue to motivate you personally.

跟他们分享你对他们的最真诚的祝愿：这是很好地表达你对孩子非常有信心的机会，同时这样的机会也将持续鼓舞着你自己。

Cherish those moments you have with yourchild, trust me, time goes by so fast, our kids go in and out of our life. Youmust never miss the opportunity to tell your child how much they mean to you.

时光如梭，珍惜那些你与孩子之间共同度过的美好时光，我们的孩子也会在我们的生活之中来回穿梭。所以，请你一定不要错过任何机会，去告诉你的孩子，他们对你的生命同样有着非凡的意义！ 

SHOW SOME APPRECIATION FORYOUR KIDS.

向你的孩子表达欣赏 

Here are the lists of things you mustremember to do and say to your child to keep the love connections forever.

为了让你们的爱的连接保持永恒，下面有一些需要你们对孩子去做、去说的事。

WHAT YOU NOTICE ABOUT YOUR CHILD

你注意到你的孩子哪些优点了

For example:

举个例子：

·  Thegenerosity your son has for his siblings

你儿子对他的伙伴的慷慨

·  Thekindness your daughter shows her friends

你女儿对她的朋友的善良

WHAT YOU ENJOY ABOUT YOUR CHILD

你与孩子在一起享受什么

For example:

举个例子：

·  Playinggames

玩游戏

·  Cookingtogether

一起做饭

·  Readingtogether

一起读书

 

WHAT YOU PROUD ABOUT YOUR CHILD

你的孩子让你最自豪的有哪些

For example, you might express pride inyour child's:

举个例子，你也许可以表达你的这些：

·  Specialrelationships

你们之间特殊的关系

·  Schoolprogress

他（她）在学校的表现

·  Athleticabilities and or various talents

运动能力或者其它各种才能

 

WHAT YOU CHERISH ABOUT YOUR CHILD

最珍贵的记忆有哪些

For example, you might include:

举个例子，你也许可以说：

·  Memoriesof a shared vacation

一起度假的一次美好回忆

·  Anobservation you'll never forget

你永远不会忘记的一次观察

·  Thememory of a time when you realized your child had grown in some way

你孩子在某方面的进步与成长的深刻回忆

 

WHAT YOU WISHES ABOUT YOUR CHILD

你对孩子的祝愿

For example, you might include:

举个例子：

·  Yourwish for your child's friendships

你对孩子的友谊的祝愿

·  Yourwish for your child's own observations of his or her talents

你祝愿你的孩子能够自己探索和发现他们的天赋

·  Yourwish regarding his or her own dreams

你祝愿他们梦想成真

 

WHAT YOU BELIEVE ABOUT YOUR CHILD

你相信你的孩子

For example, you might include thefollowing when speak to a child:

举个例子，你也许可以这样告诉你的孩子

·  Yourown convictions about his or her future.

你对于他们未来的确信

·  Aquotation that has touched you personally.

一段深深触动你的引言

 

WHAT YOU PROMISE TO ALWAYS DO TO YOUR CHILD

你保证会一直为你孩子做的事情

For example:

举个例子：

·  Ipromise to always love you, no matter what.

我保证无论怎样都会一直爱你

·  Ipromise to listen to what you have to say.

我保证会一直倾听你的真实表达

·  Ipromise to always consider your feelings and try to see things from your pointof view.

我保证会顾及你的感受，并试着从你的角度去理解

Love & Light Samia

爱与光

萨米亚

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