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爱情二十二问

2009-12-27

 

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Love Question 22

10 reasons in hand?
Psychologists believe that men and women to determine the suitability of the two "hand", should consider the following 10 factors:
First, are each other's good friends with each other, without any conditions, together with the other party likes.
Second, to communicate easily with each other, each other can be very open to anything, frankly, without fear of being suspected or belittling the other side.
Third, the two have a common spiritual principles and values, and these concepts have a clear understanding and pursuit.
Fourth, both sides believe that marriage is a lifelong thing, but the two sides (with special emphasis on "the parties") are willing to commit themselves firmly in the long-term marriage.
Fifth, the event of conflict or dispute can work together to solve the time, rather than later so as to attack.
Sixth, can get along with each other funny, laugh often, in many aspects of life will be to treat each other with humor.
Seventh, is well aware of each other and accept each other, when to know each other about the strengths and weaknesses of their own still convinced that he accepted.
Eighth, the best position to know from you is your trust received the support of each other sure.
Ninth, sometimes romantic feelings, but the vast majority of the time, you are very satisfied with each other and are free.
Tenth, there is a very rational and mature exchanges, and both sides felt that in many different levels, is to match you.

Similar or complementary?
The most common form of love between the sexes is to catch and chase. Good interpersonal each other to convey a powerful force that can make up for the lack of objective conditions. Are similar rather than complementary to each other into the people together. The main similarity of the match, including three degrees: the values and personality, interests and experience, and interpersonal style. Among them, the style of interpersonal relations is the most important predictor. And interpersonal communication style and their own people the difference between the people there will be frustration, and less likely to have further development.

Love is the追到手it?
Not. Really do not need to recover the feelings of. Understanding of two people in the distance slowly两颗心shortened gradually in close to each other unconscious. From friends to lovers, the true feelings will not be long before the. Do you like him from the moment, perhaps he is also the moment in love with you. With the rhythm of love can often play the most the most beautiful music in harmony.
   
What true love?
The need for an easy two people happy together, there is no pressure.

Love a person you pay is the reservation?
Not. Everyone is an independent, we first of all, of their own, we have ideas, we have the personality, rather than give each other our all. We can have reservations about, for example, say you do not want privacy, there is a secret talent is mature, is not it? Sometimes it does not say it better.

Appearance and personality which is more important?
Young men tend to like beautiful women, after 25 years of age, would choose their own character and the woman the right to live together and their own people. (It appears that you're old ?:)...)

Slow love?
Like a person, too, and instead of bad. First, because Vietnam is not like Vietnam; Second, it is very difficult to be a treasure, go faster. Steady and some will be more long-term love.

Hard to love easy to get along?
Live in the most important thing is that tolerance and compromise, trust and understanding in the foundation. There is no tolerance and compromise, any two people can not get along.

Love life can be several times?
Chun-chun's love may be only one, but may not be only one true love. Time will heal all wounds.

Why can love people?
In fact, we can fall in love with many people. We are not like a person, but like a certain type of person. And we first met, so we are happy together; of the latter, and only have to apologize at the same time, wish him well as soon as possible to find his own happiness.

Used to love a person is a person?
No one is that we have can not be non-life, and love a person, a lot of time to actually get used to this person

Realistic and romantic which is more important?
Reality. Not based on reality, is a romantic castle in the air. Love the campus of the University graduates often end up with, mostly because of unrealistic, not a city. Mutual appreciation of each other only admire those who have their own respective strengths, the collision will spark the most beautiful, but also will bear the sweet fruit of love.

After breaking up we can be friends with you?
Best not to. Shear constant entangled. Have passed on have passed, and we do not live in the past, but now. Love does not mean that life is just part of life.
Not feel that he looks not as good as the other party's intention to give up the pursuit, only looks at the impression that the decision really depends on whether the combination of the two sides of the main character. I have seen a handsome guy with ugly, ugly guy with the too much.

Why should we talk about for years?
Love can be a long time as long as possible. That are at least two advantages: first, full, as long as possible to enjoy the pleasure of love, two, two live longer, the more able to truly test whether or not each other, the more able to see whether the two characters come together.

How to identify whether the other side love you?
Would like to know a person love you, and you see him on there with the vitality, the unhappy, there is love, no love is not
Love is not moving, you is not his ideal partner, even if the moment you accept the future that run into one of his favorite, as you will leave. Easy to some emotional ups and downs, this is very difficult to maintain a long relationship.

What is romantic?
The flowers? Walking in the rain? Standing in front of the building going? If two men love each other heart-to-heart, and do nothing, will be relatively quiet and romantic feeling that. Otherwise, even if the two can get married to come to the moon, but also less than a romantic feeling.

门当户对do not have to?
It does not matter whether门当户对, the most important hing, when the interest should be right, otherwise there is no common language, even together, will still feel lonely.

Self-love can not afford to lose?
Long-lasting love from his heart-felt love to each other, on an equal basis. No love just crazy regardless of whether they have loved, or just enjoy being loved and loving person who really do not know will not be a good outcome.

Do not love how to do?
Love is a risk investment, it is inevitable ticket, wanted to take the normal things. Loved, enough. Since I can not put together, there is not reason together. Others can not bear you on irresponsible games, retaliation or degeneration, of his own show, the total of their own end. Moreover, he does not love you, you do not mind he has.

Learn to fall in love with the pain?
If you fall in love, do not easily pass up the opportunity. Rash, may make you regret it for some time; cowardice, but may make you regret a lifetime. Did not experience the love of life is not complete and did not experience the pain of love is not profound. So that the rich love of life, suffering so that sublimation of love.

Love to have the number of choices?
Habits and now you may love, it's clear they did not like, but with a long time, the habit is not willing to do the new choices. Will face numerous life choices. When given the opportunity to choose you, you must be careful; once you have made a choice not regret it forever; get affordable, fit, which were broken off, the forgotten, they forget it; the treasure, we should cherish it.

People who love where love?
We always said: "I love to find a love who will love." But when the other side to ask you, what would be considered a time when love is love, but you can not answer him, because you do not know.

Yes, we always thought, we would love to find a person who loves their own. But later, when we suddenly look back, we will find that they have how naive. If have never started, how do you know he or she will love it love that person? In fact, love the feeling of love is to have experienced many things together until found. Perhaps everyone would like to find their own 100% of partners in mind, but you have not thought about that in your side will be someone who has already paid a long time for you, but you do not find it then?
So, still a closer look at the people around you, he may have been waiting for you a long time. When you love a person when absolutely love to just eight. All the expectations and hopes are only七八分, and the remaining two or three hours to love their own. If you continue to love even more, is likely to give heavy pressure on the other side, so that each breath, completely lost the love of fun.

Keep in mind that alcohol should not drink more than six points, eat no more than seven full, love a person should not exceed eight. If you are confused for love, perhaps the following words can give you some inspiration: love a person, to understand the solution to open; to apologize to thank; to admit to error; to have understanding and considerate; is to accept rather than put up with; is tolerance rather than condoned; is to support rather than dominate; is questioned rather than sympathy; is talk rather than a complaint; is memorable but not forgotten; the exchange rather than explain everything; silently pray for each other rather than to the ask for each other. Can be romantic, but do not waste, not just in hand, let go lightly.

Whether or not the believe the fate?
Romantic lover who described the reunion with: tens of millions of people in the wilderness knows no boundaries of time, there is no earlier and no later than one step, it so happens that a catch up. Well with two people, you may wish to think about it this way. If not, you need to understand whether a person together, but is a simple probability problem. Thousands of pass, you will and to whom you have the opportunity to fate, if not A, B will be. Imagine the kind of别傻such as wood and stone in the former UNITA-like fate, and life can there be so many legendary. Do not awake a dream, do not you forget that although the source of artistic life, and still higher than the life you

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    牵手的10大理由?
    心理学家认为,判断男女两个人是否适合“牵手”,应考虑以下10个因素:
      第一、彼此都是对方的好朋友,不带任何条件,喜欢与对方在一起。
      第二、彼此很容易沟通、互相可以很敞开地坦白任何事情,而不必担心被对方怀疑或轻视。
      第三、两人在心灵上有共同的理念和价值观,并且对这些观念有清楚的认识与追求。
      第四、双方都认为婚姻是一辈子的事,而且双方(特别强调“双方”)都坚定地愿意委身在这个长期的婚姻关系中。
      第五、当发生冲突或争执的时候可以一起来解决,而不是等以后来发作。
      第六、相处可以彼此逗趣,常有欢笑,在生活中许多方面都会以幽默相待。
      第七、彼此非常了解,并且接纳对方,当知道对方了解了自己的优点和缺点后,仍然确信被他所接纳。
      第八、从最了解你、也是你最信任的对方处得到支持的肯定。
      第九、有时会有浪漫的感情,但绝大多数的时候,你们的相处是非常满足而且是自由自在的。
      第十、有一个非常理性和成熟的交往,并且双方都能感受到,在许多不同的层面上你们是很相配的。

    相似还是互补?
    爱情最常见的形式就是两性之间的捕捉与追逐。人际间的好感可以相互传达出强大的力量,以至于能够弥补客观条件的不足。是相似性而非互补性把人们结合到了一起。相似性主要包括三个方面的匹配度:价值观与人格、兴趣和经验、人际风格。其中,人际风格是最重要的关系预测指标。与和自己人际沟通风格有所差异的人交往会有挫折感,且较少有进一步发展的可能。

    爱情是追到手的吗?
    不是。真正的感情根本不需要追的。两个人的默契,在慢慢将两颗心的距离缩短,在无意识中渐渐靠近彼此。从好朋友到情人,真正的感情是用不了多久的。从你喜欢上他的那一刻起,也许他也在那一刻喜欢上了你。同节奏的爱情往往能奏出最和谐最动听的乐章。

    真正的爱情需要什么?
    需要两个人在一起是轻松快乐的,没有压力。

    爱一个人就是毫无保留地付出吗?
    不是。每一个人都是一个独立的人,我们首先是属于自己的,我们有思想,我们有个性,而不是把我们的全部都给对方。我们可以有保留,比如你不愿意说的隐私,有秘密的人才是成熟的,不是吗?有时候不说出来反而更好。

    外貌和个性哪个更重要?
    男人年轻的时候往往喜欢漂亮的女子,25岁以后,会选择和自己性格合适的女子,能和自己一起过日子的人。 (看样子,你老了?:)…)

    慢工出真爱?
    喜欢一个人,太急切了,反而不好。一是因为越想得到的越得不到;二是得到了也很难珍惜,来得快去得也快。细水长流一些,爱情会更长久。

    相爱容易相处难?
    相处中最重要的是宽容和妥协,在信任和了解的基础上。没有宽容和妥协,任何两个人都无法相处。

    一生可以爱几次?
    纯纯的爱也许只有一次,但是真爱未必只有一次。时间会抚平一切伤痕。

    为什么可以同时爱多人?
    我们其实是可以爱上很多人的。我们不是喜欢某个人,而是喜欢某种类型的人。先来的人和我们相遇了,于是我们幸福地走到了一起;对于后到的人,只能抱以歉意,同时,祝福他早日找到属于他自己的幸福。

    爱一个人是习惯一个人?
    没有谁是我们一生非拥有不可的,爱一个人,很多时候实际上是习惯了这个人

    现实和浪漫哪个更重要?
    现实。没有现实为基础,浪漫就是空中楼阁。大学校园的爱情往往随着毕业而告终,大多是因为不现实,不在一个城市。 只有相互欣赏相互佩服各有所长的人,才会碰撞出最美丽的火花,也才会结出最甜美的爱情果实。

    分手后我们还可以做朋友吗?
    最好不要。剪不断,理还乱。过去了就过去了,我们不是生活在过去,而是现在。爱情不等于生活,只是生活的一部分。
    不要因为自己长相不如对方而放弃追求的打算,长相只是一时的印象,真正决定能否结合主要取决于双方的性格。我见过的帅哥配丑女,丑女配帅哥的太多了。

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    为什么要谈好几年?
    恋爱的时间能长尽量长。这最少有两点好处:一,充分、尽可能长的享受恋爱的愉悦,二,两人相处时间越长,越能检验彼此是否真心,越能看出两人性格是否合得来。

    如何识别对方是否爱你?
    想知道一个人爱不爱你,就看他和你在一起有没有活力,开不开心,有就是爱,没有就是不爱
    爱情不是感动,你不是他心目中的理想伴侣,即使一时接受你,将来碰上他心仪的那一位,一样会离开你。有些人情绪容易大起大落,这样的人是很难维持一段长久的关系的。

    浪漫是什么?
    是送花?雨中漫步?楼前伫立不去?如果两人彼此倾心相爱,什么事都不做,静静相对都会感觉是浪漫的。否则,即使两人坐到月亮上拍拖,也是感觉不到浪漫的。

    不必门当户对? 
    是否门当户对不要紧,最重要应该是兴当趣对,不然没有共同语言,即使在一起,仍然会感觉到孤独。

    爱不能失去自我?
    持久的爱情源于彼此发自内心的真爱,建立在平等的基础之上。任何只顾疯狂爱人而不顾自己有否被爱,或是只顾享受被爱而不知真心爱人的人都不会有好的结局。

    不爱了怎么办?
    爱情既是风险投资,难免有去无回,失恋是再正常不过的事情。爱过,就够了。既然不能在一起,总有不能在一起的理由。不能因为别人负了你,就不负责任地游戏、报复或是堕落,自己演的戏,总要自己收场的。何况,他不爱你,你做什么他都不会在乎。

    学会爱上痛苦?
    如果爱上,就不要轻易放过机会。莽撞,可能使你后悔一阵子;怯懦,却可能使你一辈子后悔。没有经历过爱情的人生是不完整的,没有经历过痛苦的爱情是不深刻的。爱情使人生丰富,痛苦使爱情升华。

    爱情能有多少选择?
    你可能习惯与现在的恋人,明明不太喜欢,但在一起久了,习惯使人不太愿做新的选择。人生会面临无数次选择。当给你机会选择时,你一定要谨慎;一旦你做出了选择,就永远不要后悔;拿得起,放得下,该断则断,该忘记的,就把它忘记;该珍惜的,就要把它珍惜。

    很爱很爱的人在哪里?
    我们总说:“我要找一个很爱很爱的人,才会谈恋爱。”但是当对方问你,怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候,你却无法回答他,因为你自己也不知道。

    没错,我们总是以为,我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。可是后来,当我们猛然回首,我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。假如从来没有开始,你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢?其实,很爱很爱的感觉,是要在一起经历了许多事情之后才会发现的。或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣,但是你有没有想过,在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了,只是你没有发觉而已呢?
    所以,还是仔细看看身边的人吧,他或许已经等你很久了。当你爱一个人的时候,爱到八分绝对刚刚好。所有的期待和希望都只有七八分,剩下两三分用来爱自己。如果你还继续爱得更多,很可能会给对方沉重的压力,让彼此喘不过气来,完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。

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    请记住,喝酒不要超过六分醉,吃饭不要超过七分饱,爱一个人不要超过八分。如果你也正在为爱迷惘,或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示:爱一个人,要了解也要开解;要道歉也要道谢;要认错也要改错;要体贴也要体谅;是接受而不是忍受;是宽容而不是纵容;是支持而不是支配;是慰问而不是质问;是倾诉而不是控诉;是难忘而不是遗忘;是彼此交流而不是凡事交代;是为对方默默祈求而不是向对方诸多要求。可以浪漫,但不要浪费,不要随便牵手,更不要随便放手。

    是否该相信缘分?
    浪漫的人这样描述与爱人的相逢:千万人当中,在时间的无涯的荒野里,没有早一步,也没有晚一步,刚巧赶上了。两个人好着的时候,你不妨就这样想吧。如果不好了,你要明白是否和某人在一起,不过是一个再简单不过的概率问题。数千个擦肩而过中,你给谁机会谁就和你有缘分,纵没有甲,也会有乙。别傻等那种想像中的木石前盟般的缘分了,生活中哪有那么多传奇。别醒着做梦了,难道你忘了艺术虽然来源生活,却还高于生活吗

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