最近，董宇辉的演讲又上热搜了。
这一次，他站到了清华大学的讲台上。
他说：“大学第一年，我没有花太多时间放松、交友、参加社团活动。
日夜待在宿舍里，练习发音，提高我的转折和语调，扩大词汇量……
这很无聊，但我努力并坚持着，时间会证明一切。
一年多后，我的改进很明显，明显到老师第一次在班上表扬了我。
我日复一日地练习，当然，努力获得了回报，我获得了很多人的认可。
我知道你们都是来自顶级大学，恭喜你们，你们比我强多了。
我不是（顶级大学），所以我真的很努力，长途跋涉了很久才站到你们的面前。”
从三尺讲台的默默耕耘，到行业巨变后直播间的勤勤恳恳，再到如今站到清华的教室里，一字一句，不卑不亢。
这样闪闪发光的他，不知打动了多少星光下的赶路人。
这段演讲也让大家明白，他的走红，绝对不是偶然。
没有人能随随便便成功，所有惊艳众生的落落大方背后，必然是日日夜夜的勤勉和奋斗。
董宇辉此次清华大学的演讲是受CGTN邀请在清华大学录制《我眼中的中国》节目，董宇辉在录制时发表了2万余字的纯英文演讲，过程精彩绝伦。以下是董宇辉清华大学的演讲精彩片段：
It has been a long time since I returned to the stage related to teaching, and it has been a year and a half since I sold vegetables.
好长时间没有回到和教学相关的舞台，卖了一年半的菜了，这种感觉还挺魔幻的。
I have been to about 100 schools in the country, I have the most impressive is once told you, in the live broadcast mentioned in the past north of Shanxi Yanmen Pass, a new semester playground in September, 10,000 people in the playground.
我曾经就是在这样的讲台给很多学生讲课，全国去过大概有100多所学校，我印象最深刻的就是有一次给大家说过，在直播里提到过去山西雁门关以北，一个9月的新学期操场，1万人在操场。
I am passionate and generous, dancing, and the New Oriental teachers are generally crazy, when it comes to the final unconscious state, and then their teeth and claws, especially invested, look back to see a lot of children, their eyes twinkle with tears, and then at that time, blurted out:
As you recite the words, cod in Alaska are leaping out of the water;
As you do the math, seagulls in the South Pacific skim the shore;
When you study at night, the earth's polar circle is colorful;
So young, please try your best, as long as you pay for the future, when you work hard, those you can't see the scenery and the people you can't meet will eventually appear in your life.
我激情慷慨、手舞足蹈，而且新东方的老师一般都是人来疯，讲到最后都不省人事的那种状态，然后自己张牙舞爪，特别投入，回头看到很多孩子，他们眼睛里闪烁有泪光，然后就在那个时候，脱口而出：
当你背单词的时候，阿拉斯加的鳕鱼正跃出水面；
当你算数学的时候，南太平洋的海鸥正掠过海岸；
当你晚自习的时候，地球的极圈正五彩斑斓；
所以少年，请你拼尽全力，只要你为未来付出，踏踏实实努力的时候，那些你觉得看不到的风景和遇不到的人，都终将在你生命里出现。
Later, as the crowd dispersed, a child came running, a tall boy, and I needed to look up at him.
Then the child has a face of youth acne, should be a very introverted autistic child, he came to pinch my hand and pinch it painfully.
He said, 'Teacher, is it true what you just said?'
I said, 'It's all true.'
He said, 'Do you think I can see it?'
'Definitely see it.'
He said, 'Why? Lie to me, more than 10,000 people why can I see?'
'Ten thousand people, and you're the only one running up to me to make sure it's real, you really want it.' If one really wants to, things can work out!'
Then the child heard this and began to burst into tears without warning, crying as he bowed and squeezed my hand so painfully.
后来人群散去的时候，一个孩子跑过来，男孩儿个很高，我需要仰望他。
然后孩子长着满脸的青春痘痘，应该是很内向自闭的孩子，他就过来捏着我的手捏得生疼。
他说：“老师，你刚才讲的都是真的吗？”
我说：“都是真的。”
他说：“你觉得我能看到吗？”
“绝对能看到。”
他说：“凭什么？骗我的吧，一万多人凭啥就我能看到？”
“一万多人，只有你一个人跑过来向我确认是不是真的，你真的想。如果一个人真的想的时候，事情一定能成功！”
然后这个孩子听到这里就开始毫无征兆流眼泪，边鞠躬边流眼泪，把我的手捏得生疼。
I remember the sun in the playground about two or three in the afternoon in the new semester in September, the child wore a plaid shirt, turned to the street and ran back, he ran with the wind, the wind blew his shirt corner, the juvenile plaid shirt corner raised, disappeared in the crowd.
When the school bell rang, I never saw the boy again.
我记得9月新学期操场大概下午两三点的阳光，孩子穿着格子衬衫，扭头上街回头跑去，他跑起来的时候带起了风，风吹起了他的衬衫衣角，少年格子衬衫衣角扬起，消失在了人群当中。
后来上课铃声响起，我再也没有见过那个孩子。
I didn't know what would happen to him later in life, but I could foretell that he would be ignited that afternoon by years of remembering his youth.
我不知道他的人生以后有什么样的变化，我可以预感到，他多年回忆青春，那天下午他会有被点燃的感觉。
When we are teachers, there are many parents talking about family education, talking about how to plan their children's life, we are actually looking for that moment.
We were all kids once, weren't we?
我们当老师的，还有很多家长在讲家庭教育，在聊怎么规划孩子的人生，我们其实就是在寻求那样的时刻。
我们都曾经是孩子对吗？
You used to be a child, so you know that in fact, growing up is often a moment, the sentence just came from the title page of the Little Prince, we were all children once, but everyone forgot it.
你曾经是孩子，所以你知道其实成长很多时候是片刻，刚才那句话来自《小王子》的扉页，我们曾经都是孩子，只不过大家都忘了而已。
The content of my speech today may be a little sloppy, and I have not had much time to prepare recently.
今天我这个演讲的内容可能比较潦草一些，最近没有特别多的时间去准备。
Until one day, Mr. Yu suddenly told me to participate in an activity of New Oriental, but also the title to be prepared, called 'The family is always the strongest backing of the child.'
直到有一天，俞老师突然跟我说要参加新东方的一个活动，还把标题都给拟好了，叫做《家庭永远是孩子最坚强的后盾》。
In fact, there are many classic stories handed down from 2,000 years of civilization, but there are four stories about family education that can be learned from.
自古以来，两千年的文明其实流传下来很多经典的故事，但其中关于家庭教育有四个故事可以借鉴。
第一个故事是孟母三迁
Everybody read the story, right? Let's see what good people do, and we copy it. In industry, this is called 'reverse research and development'.
都读过这个故事对吗？就是我们看一下优秀的人怎么做的，我们照着抄就行了。在工业上，这叫“逆向研发”。
Meng's mother moved three times, why did she keep moving? She is next to the market, and the child learns to sell. She goes to the side of the street, the kid learns to fight the gangsters.
The influence of the environment on a person is the biggest, we often say that people are not only the product of habits, people are also the product of the environment.
孟母三迁，她为什么要持续地搬家？她在菜市场旁边，孩子跟着学叫卖；她去街道边，孩子学着跟小混混打架。
环境对一个人的影响是最大的，我们经常说人不仅是习惯的产物，人也是环境的产物。
First, Meng's mother moved three times, she is to create an environment. This environment, many times we are easy to be more narrowly understood as the school district room, understood as a more elegant living environment.
第一，孟母三迁，她是要营造一个环境。这个环境，很多时候大家容易比较偏狭地理解为学区房，理解为一个更优雅的居住环境。
But in fact, you have to think rationally, the biggest impact on a person, you recall your childhood, do you care about living in the countryside or the city? You actually care about having a few close friends around, don't you? You care about whether there are elders around you who care about you, listen to you, respect your opinions, until now, to take a look at those elders.
但其实你要理性的想一想，对一个人影响最大的，你回忆起你小时候，你在意生活在农村还是城市吗？你其实在意身边有没有几个知心的朋友，对吗？你在意身边有没有关心你、聆听你、尊重你意见的长辈，直到现在，要对那几个长辈高看一眼。
Therefore, the environment I am expressing here is indeed very difficult to encourage people to move to a better house, but we have to create a more important human environment, which is very easy.
所以，我这里所表达的营造环境，如果鼓励大家换一所更好的房子确实是件很困难的事情，但是我们要营造更重要的人文环境，这是非常容易的。
Second, advice on making friends. What is the essence of 'three moves'? Let children contact outstanding peers, we have all heard the saying, you are the average of six people around you.
第二，就是交友的建议。“三迁”的本质是什么？让孩子去接触优秀的同龄人，我们都听过一句话，你就是你周围六个人的平均数。
I grew up with this saying all the time, because I have many defects in my own character. I don't have many friends around me, and I rarely take the initiative to contact, let alone friends, even girlfriend can not make, my mother does not know whether to listen, I'm trying.
我在成长的过程当中一直在体会这句话，因为我自己的性格上有很多的缺陷。我身边的朋友不怎么多，而且我很少主动联系，别说朋友，连女朋友也交不到，我妈也不知道在不在听，我努力着呢。
I myself am a very passive person, and often a lot of inner words do not tell others, need others to guess. So I actually have very few friends around me, I have only two or three contacts with people since I grew up, including my girlfriend, I mean I have contact with.
我自己是一个很被动的人，而且经常很多内心的话不给别人讲，需要别人来猜。所以我其实身边的朋友很少，我长这么大现今联系的人只有两三个，其中还包括曾经的女朋友，我的意思是曾经联系。
I want to express the meaning that I have very few friends around me, how can I find the average of six people around me, I can only read books, I read so many years still read.
We like the young Li Bai, he is romantic until death, romantic for a while called silly, romantic life is called elegant.
我想表达的意思，我身边的朋友很少，我如何寻找我身边六个人的平均数，我只能看书了，我看了这么多年仍然在看。
我们喜欢少年一般的李白，他至死都浪漫，浪漫一阵子叫傻，浪漫一辈子就叫做风雅。
We like Du Fu, he depressed, concerned about the world, his own hut has been leaking rain, still thinking of 'a wide mansion tens of millions of people, great shelter all the poor people in the world are happy.' A child who was born in the countryside and suffered from long-term economic difficulties, resulting in low self-esteem in his adolescence, he should be more materialistic, but the good thing is that these poems remind us that in thousands of years of history, Chinese scholars, these educated elites, should bear a social responsibility and should have a conscience.
我们喜欢杜甫，他沉郁顿挫，心系天下，他自己的茅屋都已经漏雨的时候，还想着“安得广厦千万间，大庇天下寒士俱欢颜。”一个出身于农村，然后长期经济比较困难，导致自己青春期有一些自卑的孩子，他应该是要物质一些的，但还好的是，这些诗词提醒了我们，数千年的历史中，中国的士人，这些受过教育的精英应该承担一份社会责任，应该要有良心。
I also like to see Su Dongpo, so we like 'don't listen to the sound of beating the trees, why not sing and walk slowly.' Be open-minded, like Li Bai in youth, Du Fu in middle age, and Su Dongpo in old age.
我也喜欢看苏东坡，所以大家喜欢“莫听穿林打叶声，何妨吟啸且徐行。”要豁达，年轻时候像李白，中年时候像杜甫，晚年时候像苏东坡。
Therefore, the advice I have described to you about making friends, in fact, many parents have been ignoring, many parents are just very arbitrary interrupt to say, please don't contact with him, but you have to tell him why, why can't contact with him, in fact, it is not that he is not good, it is some of his behaviors, opinions, ideas, you have to tell him what is good.
所以，我给大家所描述的交友建议，其实是很多家长一直在忽略的，很多家长只是非常武断打断说，请你不要再跟他接触了，但是你要告诉他为什么，为什么不能和他接触，其实不是他这个人不行，是他身上的一些行为、观点、理念不行，你得告诉他什么是好的。
If you can't find good peers around you, read books, learn from books, sages write what they think in books.
如果身边找不到优秀的同龄人怎么样，看书，向书里学，圣贤都把自己所思所想写在书里。
Third, the cultivation of habits. Once the environment is established and the people around it are established, the child will form a habit.
第三，习惯的培养。一旦环境确立了，周围的人也确立了，孩子就会形成习惯。
Adults don't have much influence on children. When you think about it, who do you spend more time with when your children start school? It can't be a parent.
成年人对孩子的影响不多，你仔细想一想，当你孩子开始上学之后，和谁相处时间多？一定不是家长。
第二个故事是陶母割发
Tao Kan of the cut hair Banquet guest, this is a civil official who is entitled to enjoy the temple.
When he was young, he was very poor, and it was the system of filial piety, we know that filial piety, there was a very famous filial piety in Hanzhong, Shaanxi, who went to the Western regions, called Zhang Qian.
截发筵宾的陶侃，这是一个配享武庙的文官。
他年幼的时候非常的贫穷，当时是举孝廉制，我们知道举孝廉，陕西汉中出过一个非常知名的孝廉，去过西域，叫做张骞。
When Tao Kan was a child, his family was very poor, and he never raised his filial piety. His family is also very worried about him, more than 30 years old, go to Beijing to work, sell vegetables in the village, there is no object, how to do? They're all in a hurry. That's what happens. Then one day, Xiao Lian, who was recommended by his fellow townsmen, passed by his house. His mother knew that and had to entertain this friend. The hay laid under the bed was taken out, fed to the horses they rode on, his own hair was cut off and made into a wig, he exchanged money with his neighbors for grain, cooked a meal and entertained the men.
陶侃小的时候家境非常贫困，举孝廉一直没有举上。他的家人又很为他操心，30多岁了，去北京打工，村里卖菜，对象也没有，咋办？都很着急，就是这种情况。然后有一次同乡举荐上去的孝廉经过他家，他的母亲知道了，就要招待这个朋友，家里实在太穷了怎么办？床子下面铺的干草取出来，喂了他们骑的马，把自己的头发割掉了，做成假发，和邻居换了钱，换来粮食，做了一顿饭，招待那些人。
We are not encouraging people to make such sacrifices, we are trying to see why people have been praising this kind of home education through this behavior, there are actually several things behind it.
我们不是鼓励大家去做这样的牺牲，我们是想通过这样的行为，去看为什么人们一直称赞这种家庭教育，它背后其实有几点。
When she was very poor, Tao mother still encouraged her child to 'get ahead'. Many parents will because of their lack of life experience and narrow vision, in the child's childhood too much to beat the child, I have seen a lot of such parents, the family is very ordinary, some are very ordinary that working class, and even a lot of rural families like me.
在很贫穷的时候，陶母仍然在鼓励孩子要“飞黄腾达”。很多家长会因为自己人生经验的匮乏和眼界的狭隘，在孩子小的时候过度地打击孩子，我见过很多这样的家长，家里很普通，有的是非常普通那种工薪阶层，甚至有很多跟我一样的农村家庭。
He said that he wanted to be an astronaut in the future, 'You are an astronaut, you can go out on the line.'
I want to test Qinghua in the future, 'Do you know where the Qinghua gate opens?'
他说以后想要当一个宇航员，“你还宇航员，你能出门就行了”。
我以后想要考清华，“你知道清华门在哪开吗？”
You ever meet a parent like that? Parents may not be malicious, he is thinking about frustration education, and he is used to frustration education, the most important reason is that he was a child by frustration education grew up.
见过这种家长没？家长可能也不是恶意，他想着的是挫折教育，而且他习惯用挫折教育，最重要的原因是他小时候被挫折教育长大的。
People will learn from the previous generation. Therefore, once many children express their inner thoughts, but those who are beyond the physical environment or material environment at that time, parents will interrupt the first time, and their mocking tone will humiliate the children, I have seen such children, such children are in tears after the speech, the teacher's hand is painful, even bowing and regressive kind of children.
人会照着上一辈的样子学下一辈的样子。所以很多孩子一旦表达出内心的想法，但凡是超脱了当时的物理环境或者物质环境，家长会第一时间出来打断，而且以及其嘲讽的语气羞辱孩子，我见过这样的孩子，这样的孩子就是在演讲结束之后流着眼泪，把老师的手捏得生疼，连鞠躬带倒退的那种孩子。
He didn't believe it, because he always had a person by his side, who he trusted and loved the most, and kept telling him that it was impossible, you don't be silly, what are you thinking? Wake up!' I am lucky that my dad is not a particularly calm person, no matter what cattle bragged when he was a child, he would say 'I think you can'. When I was a child, my dream was to become a national leader, and my father looked at me and said, 'Well, I think you can also, and we will have talents in the future.' He really egged me on so much that as a kid I felt like I could do anything.
他不信，因为他身边一直有一个人，他最信任最爱的人，一直重复告诉他说“不可能，你别傻，想啥呢？醒醒！”我庆幸的就是我爸不是一个特别冷静的人，小时候不管吹了什么牛，他都说“我觉得你可以”。我小时候一度的梦想都是成为国家领导人，我爸看了我下，“嗯~我觉得你也可以，咱家以后要出人才了。”他真的这样怂恿我，以至于小时候我觉得自己无所不能。
When I was a child, whenever I walked in front of a girl, she didn't look at me, the girl was wasted, no vision, she didn't even pay attention to me, what can she pay attention to in the future? Why am I obsessed with confidence? Actually, it's mainly because of my dad, who believes everything I say and encourages me in everything I say, and I thank him for that. You see, I haven't been 'right' in my head until now.
我小时候但凡从女孩子面前走过，她不看我，这女孩废了，没有眼光，她连我都不关注，她以后能够关注啥？我为什么迷之自信？其实主要是因为我爸影响，我说啥他都信，而且说啥他都鼓励我，我很感谢他这样。你看，直到现在我脑子都不“正常”。
First, the poor make the stronger. Although it is an ordinary family, the child should also have a high pursuit, and do not decide the future because of the current environment. If it's because he doesn't have it now, then you say he doesn't have it in the future. What is the goal of the struggle, what is the meaning of the struggle? Let's not forget that 40 years ago this country was poor, and no one believed that this country could feed so many people.
第一，穷且益坚。尽管是普通家庭，孩子也要有高的追求，不要因为现在的环境去决定未来。如果说因为现在没有，那你就说他未来也没有。那奋斗的目标，奋斗的意义是什么？大家别忘了，40年前这个国家也一穷二白，那会儿也没有人相信，这个国家能够解决那么多人口的粮食问题。
But here we are in this big, fancy building. Therefore, Ma Yun has a saying, 'Because you believe, you see.'
但是我们现在在这么大，装修豪华的楼里面。所以，马云有一句话，“因为相信，所以看见”。
Second, be willing to give. Most of the time, love is not spoken out, love is made, I think this is a very big difference between Chinese parents and foreign parents, especially lovely.
第二，甘于奉献。很多时候爱不是说出来的，爱是做出来的，我觉得这是中国的父母和国外的父母一个非常大的区别，特别可爱。
Chinese parents are really concerned about their children's grades. In order to make them have a good breakfast, they get up very early, study by themselves at night and stay up late after work. In the spare time, they have to do housework and even go out to work to earn money for the family.
中国的父母会真的很在意孩子的成绩，为了让他早餐吃的好点，起的特别早，晚自习下班还熬夜，抽空中间的时候还要整理家务，甚至出去工作，赚钱养家。
I have been abroad for a short time, they express to the child is, 'You know, mom loves you so much ~OK~ always know oh ~ family is your strongest rely on oh ~' The child does not know how to rely on you, anyway know that you love him, just stay in the mouth.
我在国外待过短暂的时间，他们给孩子表达的是，“你知道吗，妈妈很爱你~OK~永远知道哦~家庭是你最坚强的依靠哦~”孩子也不知道咋能依靠你，反正知道你爱他，仅停留在口头。
I mean, this kind of behavior of Tao mother in the child's life the most need for help, he took the top, the child is a lifetime of kindness.
我的意思是，陶母的这种行为在孩子人生最需要帮助的时候，他顶上了，孩子是记一辈子恩情的。
Third, teach by example and preach. Another point I want to convey to parents is that you don't have to give or sacrifice yourself all the time. Tao Mother usually said: 'The weather is fine today, son, mother wants you to eat a meat.' Cut, cut hair. I guess Tao Kan didn't have such a big reaction, can you understand what I mean? Tao Kan has a very famous descendant, everyone has memorized his articles, Tao Yuanming. After he made it himself, this formed a kind of teaching effect, I often give many parents said, I said: 'do not preach', we said 'preach by example' is actually wrong, needless to say, say less, even don't say, do we know, this is the second story to us inspired.
第三，身教言传。我想给家长表达的是另一个点，你不必时刻奉献或者牺牲自己。陶母平常说：“今天天气很好，儿，妈想让你吃顿肉。”，咔，头发割了。估计陶侃也没有这么大的反应，能理解我的意思吗？陶侃有个非常知名的后人，大家都背过他的文章，陶渊明。他自己做出来之后，这就形成一种身教言传的效果，我也经常给很多家长说，我说：“不要言传”，我们说的“言传身教”其实是错的，不用说，少说，甚至别说，做了大家就知道了，这是第二个故事给我们的启发。
第三个故事是岳母刺字The greatest motivator a mother or father can give a child in life is purpose. By knowing what he is living for, a man is able to accept all the sufferings that life throws at him. It was Nietzsche who said it. Life goal, loyalty to the country, this is about the mission, about the goal of the struggle, about the meaning.一个母亲或者一个父亲给孩子最大的人生的成长动力就是目标。知道自己为什么而活，一个人就能够接受生活所加诸他的一切苦难。这句话是尼采说的。人生目标，精忠报国，这是关于使命，关于奋斗目标，关于意义的。He can tolerate any kind of life, because he knows how to live. He completed a philosophical problem, life goals, struggle direction, specific path, to make contributions to the country, first of all to enter a certain field, do solid things, and then is mission driven.他能够忍受任何一种生活，因为他知道自己要怎么活。他完成一个哲学的问题，人生目标、奋斗方向，具体的路径，要为国做出贡献，首先要进入某一个领域，做扎实的事情，然后就是使命驱动。And from the front to the back, the higher the spiritual support of family education for children, so the family is the best backing for children's growth, material backing is not so important, more is a kind of spiritual support.而且从前往后看，家庭教育给孩子的精神支撑越高，所以说家庭是孩子成长最好的后盾，物质后盾不是那么重要，更多的是一种精神上的支撑。董宇辉的此次演讲内容很长，有足足两万字，因为篇幅原因，我们就分享到这里。
最后还是给大家分享一个董宇辉的经典语录：只要你足够努力，神明都会庇佑于你，你终究能等来好运气。不要觉得自己笨，你的大脑和肌肉一样是可以练习的，走出舒适区并不舒服，因为反人性，但进化本身就很痛苦，成长都是反人性。
