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【原创】美文 | 很多年后,我一回头,你还在




前言:多年后,我一回头,你还在……,最真的感情永远都是:死皮赖脸中破涕为笑,心甘情愿中不厌其烦。


我喜欢那么一种友情,不是那么多,不是那么浓烈,不是那么甘甜,也不是那么时时刻刻,甚至有时候会用年、十年、半个世纪去给它计时,它是那么少,那么真,那么久长。

很多年后,我一回头,你还在……

若悲伤有人分担,又何尝不是一种慰藉;若孤单有人陪伴,又何时何处不是心暖、心安。

最真的感情永远都是:死皮赖脸中破涕为笑,心甘情愿中不厌其烦。

有些人,走着走着就进了心里,恰似故友;有些人,走着走着就淡出视线,难以交心;

有些情,于岁月中,慢慢消融,不再刻骨铭心;

有些人,于相交中,慢慢远离,好像无影无踪;

有些事,于时光中,慢慢淡定,从此不再动心。

所以,人与人之间的相遇靠缘分,心与心相知靠真诚;人生若有二三好友,无话不谈,不离不弃,可谓幸运……

两个人在一起多久并不重要,重要的是你有没有在这个人心里待过。有些人哪怕在一起一天,却在心里待了一辈子;

有些人即使在一起一辈子,却没有在心里待过一天。

选择一个朋友,就是选择一种生活方式。

自己修身养性是交到好朋友的前提,等于给自己打开了最友善的世界,能够让自己的人生具有光彩。

真正的朋友不是在一起有聊不完的话,而是即使不说一句话也不觉得尴尬。

朋友像块晶莹的宝石,需要用真诚去雕琢,用理解去保鲜,用沟通去修饰。

朋友不一定要门当户对,但一定要同舟共济;

不一定要形影不离,但一定要心心相惜;

不一定要锦上添花,但一定要雪中送炭;不一定要天天见面,但一定要放在心里。

习惯,是时间累积而来的一种动作。

情人间常说:“我对你不再有爱,都变成了习惯了”其实,习惯并没有什么不好:它让你自然的去做,自然的去想他,自然的去爱他……

当你已经不觉得自己在付出时,也许你觉得,你己开始习惯,有他陪伴在你的生命中那才是真的爱。

好好的对待你已经习惯的那个人吧!

没有放弃,怎能拥有;不守寂寞,岂见繁华。

人真正的魅力,不是你给对方留下了美好的第一印象;而是对方认识你多年后,仍喜欢和你在一起。

也不是你瞬间吸引了对方的目光;而是对方熟悉你以后,依然欣赏你。

更不是初次见面后,就有相见恨晚的感觉;而是历尽沧桑后,由衷倾诉:认识你真好。

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Preface: Many years later, I am back, you are still ... ..., the most true feelings are always: Sipilai face tears in tears, willing to take the trouble.



I like such a kind of friendship, not so much, not so strong, not so sweet, not so momentous, and sometimes even timed with years, ten years, and half a century, it is so small that Really, so long and long.

Many years later, I am back, you are still ...

If sadness is shared, is it not a comfort? If one is alone, when and where is not the heart and warmth and peace of mind.

The most real feelings are always: Sipilai face tears in tears, willing to take the trouble.


Some people, walked into the heart, just like an old friend; some people, walked away from sight, it is difficult to meet;

Some love, in the years, slowly ablation, no longer unforgettable;

Some people, in the intersection, slowly away, as if without a trace;

Some things, in time, slowly calm, no longer tempted.

Therefore, the encounter between people by fate, heart and heart know each other sincerely; if there are two or three friends in life, nothing to talk about, never betray, can be described as lucky ......


It does not matter how long the two people are together, but what's important is whether you have stayed in that person's heart. Some people even stayed together for a long while in their hearts;

Even if some people are together for a lifetime, they have not been in the heart for a day.


Choose a friend, is to choose a way of life.

Self-cultivation is the prerequisite of good friends, which means that we have opened the most friendly world and can make our life glorious.

Real friends are not talking endlessly together, but they do not feel embarrassed if they do not say a word.


Friends like a block of crystal gem, need to carve out in good faith, to understand the preservation, the use of communication to decorate.

Friends do not have to be well-mannered, but must work together;

Not necessarily inseparable, but we must be congenial;

It does not have to be an icing on the cake, but it must be in a hurry. You do not have to meet every day, but you must be in your heart.


Habit, is an accumulation of time from the action.

Valentine often said: 'I no longer have love for you, have become accustomed to' In fact, there is nothing wrong with habits: it allows you to do it naturally, to think of him naturally, to love him naturally ... ...

When you no longer feel that you are paying, maybe you think that you have become accustomed to having him in your life that is the true love.

Take good care of the person you are used to.


Did not give up, how can we have; do not keep loneliness, see prosperous.

The real charm of people, not you left a good first impression to each other; but each other know you for many years, still like to be with you.

It is not that you instantly attract each other's eyes; but after the other familiar with you, still appreciate you.

Not to meet for the first time, there is a feeling of mutual feeling late; but after the vicissitudes of life, sincerely talk: to know you so good.

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