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平等心不是强迫心处在中立状态--我们根本不必做任何事情!

平等心不是强迫心处在中立状态--我们根本不必做任何事情!


The three aspects to watching themind effectively

 有效看念头的三个原则--隆波帕默特.帕默皎FatherPramote Pamojjo

 
  首先我们要避免提前刻意地去观察。
我们要等心理感受在心中暂时生起了才去知道它。先让心理感受或情绪自然地生起,然后再知道它已生起。如果生气生起了,知道它已生起了。如果贪心生起了,知道它已生起。如果心胡思乱想,知道它胡思乱想已发生。


 为什么我们必须在现象生起后才去知道它呢?这是因为许多生起的心理感受或情绪都是烦恼(如生气、贪求等,见词汇表)。每次心只会生起一种状态,因而当非染污心生起时烦恼就不会生起。比如,正念现前的时刻生气就不会同时存在。生气这个烦恼消失,取代了它的是非染污心,这个非染污心就是那个觉知刚刚什么已发生了的观察者。


不要刻意地等着下一刻什么会生起,这点非常重要。让心理感受或情绪先生起,然后知道它已生起了。下面这个例子示范这个方法,想象一只野狗突然向我们奔扑过来,我们感到害怕,我们知道害怕生起了,我们不能事前预设这件事的发生。


 当然我们应该走别的道路,避开这条狗!我们不能继续往前让狗来咬我们,再看什么会发生。有人说让狗来咬是了业,却不知这正是在造新业,真愚蠢!我们要恰当地采取行动,避免受伤害。如果我们和一位朋友在一起,我们会跑得会比我们的朋友快一些才好(笑)。或者我们要练习如何自我牺牲去助人,我们就跑得比朋友慢一些,这是另外一个主题。


  我在这里演讲的当下,许多人心已跑出去了。有些人迷失在我所说的话中,有些人迷失在他们的念头里,而有些人心已漫游回到家里去了!

 

 好,回到主题,我们不要刻意地去看心念。许多人目的性太强,他们等着禅修课程开始,说:“好,当课程开始时我真的要好好看我的心。”恰恰相反,什么也没有发生。这是因为他们提前专注于此,使得他们的心反而停滞不动了。

  当我们投太多注意力在某一处时,就不会有多少运动变化让我们来观察,因为心静止不动了。相反,我们要以最自然的方式来禅修。每次当心去想或眼耳鼻舌身意与外界接触时,一种心理感受就可能会生起,此时觉知什么心理感受生起了。


  当我们听到一首歌时,喜欢它,知道喜欢生起了。如果有人大吼大嚷,欲望心也许会生起,我们可能想知道那个人在叫喊什么呢,觉知想知道的欲望生起了。听一会儿后我们意识到他正对着我们嚷呢。想知道的欲望消失了,气恼突然地出现了。此刻我们的工作是去知道气恼已生起了。在事实出现之后知道,一次又一次,尽可能多地知道。观察心念不是提前专注地去看,而是知道已经发生的心理现象。


 好,现在我要你们开始观察心。观察它!你有没有看到你的心开始冻结、静止不动了?这是因为你刻意地去观察心,这是一种错误的方式。好,现在我们不观察心了,来听我讲一则古老的故事。你是否觉得你开始放松了?当一些轻松的娱乐的事情将要发生时,我们的心就会放松下来,此时觉知心已放松了,这才是正确的方法。刻意地去观察会使我们僵化,事情就不会自然地发生。


 因而正确的方法是不带目的性地不刻意去看,而是事实发生后知道什么发生了。这是关于观察心念时三个原则中的第一条。我须提醒大家一点,我们知道时,我们要快点知道。我们不能今天生气了,明天才意识到自己生气了。当生气生起时,我们需要趁生气还在时就去认知出它。如果生气已消失了,我们知道在消失过了一小时后才知道,那太迟了。我们应该当生气还在那儿时去认出它。我们将注意到“刚刚一瞬间前我生气了,现在我知道。”我们会看到当我们有正念知道的那一刻,生气就不会存在。现象生起之后才去知道,并尽可能在接近生起的那刻不带目的性地去知道。一旦当我们能够以这种方法去认知出心的不同状态,正念就会自动到来,一条导向智慧的离苦的解脱之道就开始了。

 

 现在我讲正确观察心念的第二个原则:不要滑入到任何你所觉知的心理现象或情绪中去。一般来说,当我们想了解某件事时,我们的心就移向我们感兴趣的地方。现在就试试,让我们看看手臂上有多少出生时的胎迹,你有没有注意到你的心听到这句话之后就跑去看你的手臂?我不关心你的手臂上有多少胎迹,我是让大家注意心已跑出去了。心不是稳定的,觉性还没有扎根,它正滑入它正观察的对象。当我们阅读较远处的东西时,我们能够轻易地看到这种现象发生。阅读较远处的东西,比如墙上的海报、交通标志等,我们的心跑出去阅读,接着它就开始思考,然后就在头脑里重复刚才它看到的东西。


  当我们观察心念时,我们要有距离地去知道已生起的现象,好象我们没有介入所发生的事件中去一样。一旦确认知道了,就不要靠近那情绪或心理状态。比如,生气生起了,看着它,好象看到别人刚刚在生气。心此时只是观察者,在观察者与生气之间保持一段距离。


  不要专注在生气上。禅修者大多容易进入或专注在刚已所发生的对象上,就好象看到电视上正演着我们喜爱的节目时我们就一头扎进去那样。从现在开始,无论何时,心跑出去了去观察其它对象了时,我们就知道这个情形发生了。当我们看到这个情形发生了时,心就会自行稳定下来。我们不试图强迫心觉性稳定。

 

  内观禅修是不带任何强迫性的,它只是如实了知实相。如果有强迫,就会产生压力,这就表明修法有误。因而当心潜入到某些事情中时,我们知道就够了,不要强迫它回来。当我们想起某位朋友时,我们的心就掉进入念头之中(称之为掉举),完全忘了觉知自己的身和心。我们需要知道掉举发生了,这样心就会渐渐扎根稳定下来。


 当我们看足球赛时,我们不要站在赛场看。我们在观众台上看,有距离地看。球员们在场上跑来跑去,我们却很稳定,我们和比赛之间有距离。同样地,在音乐会上,我们坐在我们的椅子上看乐队演出,我们不占据这舞台上,在我们和表演之间有一段距离,我们仅仅是观察者。这就是我们怎样观察我们的心理感受或情绪-有距离地观察,不进入不粘着心理感受或情绪。当我们如此观察时,我们要尽快知道已发生的现象,这样心就从现象中分离出来,此刻就成为了观察者。

 

 观察心念的第三个原则:不干涉原则。我们不采取任何行动去干涉已认出的感觉或心理现象。无论什么发生了,都没有关系,我们让它发生。


  生气了,我们不试图让生气消失。我们的工作仅仅是知道心在生气。我们尽最大努力只是成为观察者,而不是挡路的干预者。当痛苦来临时我们不试图除掉痛苦,我们只是认出它在那儿。当幸福生起时,我们不试图使幸福延长。美好的境界来临时,我们不试图保住它。我们只是平静地知道:对于到来的一切,不挽留、不拒绝、不抵抗。

 
第三个原则正式的说法是以平等心去知道所生起的现象。那就是无论什么现象出现了,心公正地中立地去看待它们。平等心的产生是经由观察认出心的喜欢或不喜欢而达成的。(对已发生的现象心产生了喜欢或不喜欢,心再次去观察这喜欢或不喜欢,通过多次观察认出心的喜欢与不喜欢,平等心渐渐产生了)。


  平等心不是强迫心处在中立状态。强迫会产生压力。内观是没有控制、拒绝、抵抗 –我们根本不必做任何事情!在任何给定的时刻,无论什么状态生起,我们知道心在那种状态就可以了。

 
  如果我们看到一位美女走过,贪爱生起了,此时我们不要去寻找一个方法去除掉这贪爱,也不要试图赶走这美女,尽快认出心起了贪爱就可以了。如果不喜欢这个贪爱,心就不公正了,它对这贪爱有嗔心,想让贪爱消失,此时我们要知道嗔心已生起了,我们要知道心不平等。快乐生起了,如果我们喜欢这快乐,心就不中立,此时我们要知道喜欢生起了。无论何时一种心理状态生起了,心喜欢或不喜欢它,我们认出这喜欢或不喜欢。如果我们持续练习,平等心就渐渐产生,我们将以平等心去知道所有心理现象。这就是怎样正确有效地观察心念的第三个原则。

     
  如果要加上第四点的话,那就是大量地练习。如果我们能够每四个念头中就能看见一个念头,那么涅槃肯定一天就可以达成。因为我们已种植了成就涅槃的所有善因。在通往涅槃的每个阶段,心将发生大的转变,苦会大幅度地减少。


 总而言之,我们修习佛法以便有一天苦不再在心中生起。我们通过练习知道心念的方法来实现苦的止息。每次当苦潜入心中时,看到它,最终它会自行消遁,不需要赶它走。

  记住观察心念的三条原则:

第一,不要寻找现象,不要作假设或预先等待,让心理现象它自然发生,然后,再认出它。

 

第二,有距离地观察,现象出现时不要把注意力移向它,我们站在外面看。如果我们专注在现象上,这就是修奢摩它(修定),不是修毗婆舍那,智慧之道。

 

第三,随着心理现象的生起,注意心里是否有喜欢与喜欢产生。经常练习,无论什么现象生起,心将渐渐自动生起平等心。

    
 当我们以这种方法去观心,我们将会对任何生起的现象如实了知。我们会看到身和心的本来状态。我们会看到身和心不是我们。持续地观察身和心,我们将看到身心之流的变化无常,看到它们的虚幻不实,看到它们苦的自然属性。此时我们会渐渐冷静客观地看待这一切。我们会对身和心的粘着中解脱出来,解脱生起时知道解脱已生起。我们从什么中解脱出来呢?是从对身和心的粘着中解脱出来,我们从苦中解脱出来,因为苦存在于身和心中。你看到了吗?只有身和心这两个地方会产生苦。一旦解脱,苦就消失,我们完全觉醒,充满喜乐,不再需费力去维持什么了。


  你们肯定听过古老彦语这么说:“学习是一辈子的事”; “人生是一所学校”;“活到老学到老“。这是因为世间知识的学习永无止尽。这世间不断制造出新事物,所以需要不停地学。而佛法呢,一旦涅槃了,心从苦中解脱了,就不再造作,不再虚构。一旦从苦中解脱了,我们就不再需要学习,我们的佛法学习就完成了。


隆波帕默尊者的简介
  隆波在他出家前就已禅修超过40年,他是一位非常精进的正念禅修者。他向泰国森林比丘传统体系学习,在那里许多禅修进展过程的细节教导在小圈子内传递。
隆波于2001年出家。他七岁就开始精进禅修,他遇到过多位老师,他认为最重要的老师是隆波顿,隆波顿师从于嫡系泰国东北部森林比丘法脉的隆波曼。


  
  There are three aspects to watching the mind,three tendencies to remember to avoid if we are practiceeffectively.

The first is to avoid intending toknow in advance. We just need to know the feelings that temporarilyarise in the mind after they do. Let the feeling occur naturallyfirst and then know that it has. If anger arises, know that it has.If greed arises, then know that it has. If the mind has wanderedoff, know that it has happened. Why must we know after the fact?This is because many of the feelings that arise are defilements ofmind (i.e. anger, desire; see glossary for more). Only one mindarises at a time, so a defiled mind cannot arise at the same timeas a non-defiled mind. For example, anger cannot exist in the mindat the same moment that mindfulness (see glossary) notices theanger. The defiled angry mind drops off and is replaced by anon-defiled mind- the one that is mindful of what justhappened.

It is important to not watch intentlyand wait for what will arise next. Let a feeling arise first andthen know that it has. A good way to demonstrate this is to imaginea rabid dog suddenly darting at us. We feel terrified. We thenshould know that fear has arisen. We didn’t intend for thisoccurrence beforehand.


Of course we should still get out of the way of the dog! Wedo not proceed to let the dog bite us and see what happens afterthat. Anyone who says they will just leave it up to their karma, ismaking new karma – stupidity! We do what is appropriate so that weare not harmed. If we are with a friend, we just need to run alittle faster than our friend and we’ll be fine (laughter). Or wecan practice the art of sacrifice and run slower than our friend.But that is another topic altogether. As I am speaking here, manypeople here have their minds wandering out. Some are wandering tome,some are wandering in thought, and some have wandered homealready!

 

Back to the lesson, we should not intend to watch the mind. Manypeople have too much intention; they wait for the gong to be struckto begin the meditation session and say, ”Ok, when the sessionbegins I’m really going to watch my mind well.” To their surprise,little happens. This is because they focused in beforehand, andmade their minds still. When we hold our attention somewhere, therewon’t be much movement to notice. The mind will be immobilized.Instead, we should practice in the most natural way. Each time themind thinks or the eyes, ears, nose, tongue, or body make contactwith the outside world, a feeling is likely to appear. Be aware ofwhat does. If we hear a song and like it, we should know thatliking has arisen. If someone is shouting, wanting may arise. Wemay want to know what this person is ranting and raving about. Knowthat wanting to know has arisen. Then we listen for a while andrealize it is us that he is going on about! Wanting to know willhave disappeared, and anger crops up. Our job is to know that angerhas arisen. Know after the fact, again and again, as much aspossible. Watching the mind is not about focusing in advance. It isabout knowing what has arisen.

 

Ok, now I want all of you to start watching the mind right now.Watch it! Can you see that you are starting to freeze up, to getstill? This is because you intended to watch. It is the wrongapproach. Ok , now I would like you to stop watching the mind andI’ll tell you an old story. Can you feel that you are starting torelax again? When something easy and amusing is about to happen ourmind loosens and relaxes. Know that it has relaxed. This is theright approach. Intending to watch will stiffen us up, and thusthings will not arise naturally.

 

So the right approach is to not intend, and instead, to know whatarises after the fact. This is the first of three aspects to teachregarding watching the mind. I should mention, however, that whenwe know, we need to know quickly. We can’t be angry today andrealize it tomorrow. When anger arises, we need to recognize thatthere is anger while anger is still there. If it has alreadydropped away, and we wake up to it an hour later, it is too late.We should recognize the anger while it is there. We will notice,“Just a moment ago I was angry, and now I am knowing.” We will seethat when we are mindful of the anger, the anger is not there inthat moment of knowing. Know subsequent to their arising ofphenomena, but as close to their arising as possible without priorintention. Once we are able to recognize many different states inthis way, mindfulness will come automatically and the path to thewisdom that will liberate us from suffering will begin.

 

Now I’ll tell you about the second aspect of watching the mindcorrectly: The mind should not slip down into any of the mentalphenomena or feelings of which you have become mindful. Normally,when we want to know something, our minds will move out to theplace of interest. Try it now. Let’s have a look at our arm see howmany birthmarks there are. Can you see that your mind went out tolook at the arm? I’m not interested in how many marks there are; Iwant us to notice that the mind goes out. The mind is not stable,not rooted in awareness. It is slipping down into what it isknowing. We can easily see this happen when we read something a bitfar away, like a poster on our wall, or a street sign. The mindruns out to see it, and then it goes into thinking, internallyrepeating the words it is reading.

 

When we watch the mind, we should know what has arisen from adistance, as if we are not involved in what is going on. Don’t movetowards the feeling or mental state once it has been acknowledged.If anger, for example, arises in the mind, see it as if it issomeone else who has just become angry. The mind is just thewatcher; there is a distance between the mind and the anger. Don’tfocus in on the anger. The tendency of meditators is to go in andfocus on what has come up, just like when zeroing in on thetelevision when our favorite show is on. The mind goes out to theTV and gets lost in it. From now on, whenever the mind goes out towatch something, know that this is happening. When we see thishappen, the mind will become stable on its own. We should not tryto force it to be stable in awareness.

 

Vipassana practice has no force in it whatsoever. It is aboutknowing things as they really are. If there is force, there isstress, which is always a sign that there is something wrong. So wedon’t force it, we just know it when the mind slips down intosomething. If we think of a friend, our mind will slip into theworld of thought and completely lose awareness of our body andmind. We need to know that this has happened, and the mind willbecome rooted on its own.

 

When we watch football, we don’t watch it from the field. We are inthe stands, watching from a distance. The players are runningaround, but we are stable; there is a space between us and thegame. Similarly, at a concert, we watch the band from our seats. Wedo not take the stage. There is a distance between us and theperformance. We are merely the watcher. This is how we should watchour feeling – from a distance. We should not slip down and cling tothe feelings. When we do, we should know this, as soon as we can,and the mind will loosen its grip on what has arisen and become thewatcher for that moment.

 

The third aspect of watching the mind applies after we know whathas arisen. We don’t interfere in any way with the feeling ormental phenomenon that we have recognized. It absolutely doesn’tmatter what it is that arises, we let it be. If anger arises, we donot try to make it go away. Our job with regards to the anger isjust to know that the mind is angry. We do our best to be just thewatcher and not get in the way. We are not trying to get rid ofsuffering if it arises; we are to just recognize that it is there.If happiness arises, we don’t try to make it last long. If avirtuous state arises, we don’t try to keep it. We are just to knowwith equanimity: without maintaining, denying or resisting whatcomes up. Formally put, the third aspects of watching the mind isto know what arises with a mind that is equanimous. This means themind is impartial or netutral to whatever phenomena appear.Equanmity is accomplished by seeing the mind either liking ordisliking what it has just recognized. Equanimity is notaccomplished by forcing the mind to be neutral. Force causesstress. In Vipassana, there is no controlling, denying, resisting –we mustn’t really do anything at all! At any given moment whateverstate the mind is in, know that it is in that state.

 If we see a beautiful woman walk by and cravingappears in the mind, we don’t look for a way to get rid of thecraving. We don’t try to get rid of the woman either. Just quicklyacknowledge that the mind has craving. If the mind doesn’t like thecraving, then it is no longer impartial. It has aversion to thecraving and wants it to go away. We are to know that this aversionor hatred has arisen. We are to know the mind is not equanimous. Ifhappiness arises, and we like the happiness, the mind is notneutral. Know the mind is liking. Whenever a mental state arisesand the mind likes it or doesn’t like it, we should recognize it.If we keep doing this, equanimity will gradually result. We willknow all mental phenomena with an equanimous mind. This is thethird aspects of how to correctly and effectively watch themind.

 If we add in a fourth aspect it would be to watchthe mind in this way with great frequency. If we follow one throughfour, then nibbāna (Nirvana; enlightenment) is certain to berealized one day. This is because we will have cultivated all theappropriate causes for this realization. The mind will incur amajor shift, and suffering will drop off in great quantities ateach stage of enlightment.

 

In summary, we practice the Dhamma so that one day no moresuffering will arise in the mind. The way that we accomplish thisis by the practice of knowing our minds. Each time that sufferingsneaks up in the mind, see it, and eventually it will drop off onits own. There is no need to chase it away. Remember the threeaspects, or the three rules for watching the mind. Firstly, don’tlooking for phenomena to know. Don’t be presumptuous or wait inanticipation. Let one show itself first, and then recognize it.Secondly, watch from a distance. Let’s not move our attentiontowards a phenomenon when it appears. Be an outsider. If we focusin, then we are practicing Samatha, calmness meditation, notVipassana, the path of wisdom. And thirdly, subsequent to thearising of a mental phenomenon, notice when liking or dislikingappears. Do this often and the mind will of its own accord becomeequanimous to whatever arises.

 When we watch the mind in this way, we will seewhatever arises as it really is. We will see the true nature ofbody and mind. We will see that body and mind are not us. We willkeep seeing the truth of body and mind until we becomedispassionate to their constant flux, their insubstantiality, theirsuffering nature. We will release attachment to them, be liberatedand know that liberation has taken place. What will we be liberatedfrom? We will be liberated from attachment to this body and mind.We will be liberated from suffering, because suffering resides inthis body and mind. Can you see that these are the only two placeswhere suffering can be found? Upon liberation, suffering will begone and we become fully aware, awakened and blissful without anyeffort or maintenance necessary.

 

I’m sure you have heard an age old saying, something to the tune of“Learning is a life-long process,” ”life is a school,” or ”We learnuntil the day we die.” This is because there is no end to worldlyknowledge. The world fabricates new things incessantly and there isalways more to learn. Regarding Dhamma, once there is enlightenmentand mind is liberated from suffering, it is no longer fabricating,no longer creating fictions. Once we are free from suffering, thereis nothing more to learn in this regard. Our Dhamma studies arecompleted.

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