这个社会，微妙又复杂，变化万千。一旦读懂它背后的规律，就能以不变应万变。
This society, subtle and complex, is ever changing. Once you understand the laws behind it, you will be able to respond to all changes.
这些定律，胜过一切技巧。
These laws, more than any skill.
01
三级定律
聪明技巧。聪明的人一心选择走捷径，那靠运气、偶然、投机“对赌”获得的成功只是一瞬而已。
Cleverness avoids cleverness. Smart people choose to take the shortcut, that by luck, chance, speculative 'bet' success is only a moment.
才华忌傲。越有才华，越需要深入群众，越不能傲慢，否则一定会穷困潦倒。
Talent bogey proud. The more talented you are, the more you need to reach out to the masses.
平庸忌懒。世间的普通人，败就败在一个懒字上。
Mediocrity is taboo. The ordinary people in the world are defeated by a lazy word.
02
高调定律
越成功的人越需要慎言慎行，如履薄冰；越弱小的人越可以胆大妄为，野蛮生长。
The more successful people are, the more they need to tread on thin ice. The weaker the man, the more he can be bold and savage.
而很多人却搞颠倒了：年轻时做事畏首畏尾，最终一无所成；成功时却胆大妄为，最后终于栽倒。
Many people get it the other way round. They are timid when they are young and end up with nothing. Success is bold, and finally fall.
03
“100-1=0”定律
这在数学上当然是错误的，但在人性上却是成立的。
This is mathematically false, of course, but it is humanly true.
生活中不乏这样的人，你对他100次好，他不记得，一次不让他满意，他就会翻脸不认人，抹杀之前你对他所有的好。
There is no lack of such people in life, you are nice to him 100 times, he does not remember, once not satisfied with him, he will turn his face and disown people, erase all the good to him before you.
人性是经不起纵容的，不是你真心付出，别人就会铭记于心；不是你出手大方，别人就知道感恩。
Human nature can not afford to indulge, not you really pay, others will remember in mind; People are not grateful just because you are generous.
人心险恶，世道艰难，并非事事都值得你一再伸手相助，也不是人人都配得上你的善良。
Times are rough and unkind, and not all are worthy of your repeated help. Not all are worthy of your kindness.
你的真诚可能换来的是背叛，宽容或许得到的是反目。
Your sincerity may get betrayal, tolerance may get antipathy.
所以，别对一个人太好。我们既要保持善良，又要懂得适度拒绝。
So, don't be too nice to someone. We have to be kind, but also know how to say no in moderation.
04
知止定律
生活中，我们认为无足轻重的一些小事，或是一句话，一点欲念，些许越轨；可能在不知不觉中，让我们一步步走向不归路。
The little things in life that we consider unimportant, or a word, a desire, a little deviance; May unknowingly, let us step by step towards the road of no return.
止语：守住嘴 ，不该说的话一定不要说，不该知道的事，更不要乱说。
Stop words: keep your mouth shut, don't say what you shouldn't say, don't know, don't talk nonsense.
止欲 ：如若贪、懒、名、利等欲望不知止，就像无法控制的毒瘾一样，一旦沾染，就会深陷其中。
Abstinence: If the desires of greed, laziness, fame and wealth are unrestrained, it is like an uncontrollable drug addiction. Once you get into it, you will fall into it.
止行：不是不行，而是“三思而后行”，不懂思虑如何行事之人，往往会给自己带来很多祸事。
Stop line: not no, but 'think before you act', do not know how to think about how to act, often bring a lot of disaster to themselves.
当行则行，当止即止，才能立身长久不败，收获人生最大的逍遥！
When the line is the line, when stop that is, to stand for a long time undefeated, the harvest of life the biggest free and unfettered!
05
两分钟定律
如果你想做一件事，一定要在2分钟之内去做，否则，这件事你可能就会拖延好久，甚至不去做。
If you want to do something, do it in less than 2 minutes. Otherwise, you may put it off for too long or not do it at all.
2分钟是个泛指，强调的无非是“立刻去做”的重要性。
Two minutes is a generic term that emphasizes nothing more than the importance of 'getting it done'.
拖延和等待，是最容易压垮斗志的东西，它将不断滋养恐惧，唯有行动才是治愈恐惧的良药。
Procrastination and waiting, is the easiest thing to crush morale, it will continue to nourish the fear, only action is the cure of fear.
所以，今天就开始，挥剑斩拖延吧，现在就行动，立刻，马上！
So, today is the day to cut procrastination, right now, right now!
06
鸭子定律
人们只看到鸭子在水面上悠闲安逸地游动。
Ducks are only seen swimming leisurely on the surface of the water.
但潜入水下后你就会发现，原来它的鸭蹼一直都在拼命地划动着，没有一刻停歇。
But as you dive under the water, you realize that his webbed flippers are always moving as hard as they can.
优雅需要底气，华丽需要实力。那些漫不经心的轻松与自在，不过都是短暂的错觉。
Elegance needs confidence, luxuriance needs strength. Those careless lightness and ease, but are temporary illusion.
人生会遇到各种各样的海，或大或小的风浪。平步青云终是侥幸，厚积薄发方是人间正道。
Life will encounter all kinds of sea, or big or small waves. Success is a fluke, thick accumulation is the right way in the world.
07
口水定律
当你红得让人流口水时，关于你的口水就会多起来，这就是“口水定律”，
When you're drooling red, there's a lot of drooling about you, and that's the 'drooling law,'
这个定律，换句话说就是“人红是非多”
The law, in other words, is 'Red is more wrong.'
著名学者余秋雨说：人没有非议是不真实的，非议就像人的影子，人越高，影子就越长。
Yu Qiuyu, a famous scholar, said: 'It is not true that people do not have criticism. Criticism is like the shadow of a person. The higher a person is, the longer his shadow will be.'
你不是人民币，不可能让所有人都满意。
You are not RMB and you cannot please everyone.
生活的辩证法是，没有人能把风光占尽，有所得必有所失。既然享受了出名的红利，就要有接受他人吐口水甚至泼脏水的思想准备。
The dialectic of life is, no one can take all the scenery, gain must lose. Now that you have enjoyed the bonus of fame, be prepared to be spat at or even spat at.
与其太在意他人的非议、活在别人的嘴里，不如静下来、沉住气，专注做好自己的事情。
Instead of caring too much about others' criticism and living in others' mouth, it is better to calm down, calm down and focus on doing your own thing well.
08
在乎定律
你越在乎的东西越容易失去；内心越渴求，往往越容易失手。
The more you care about something, the easier it is to lose; The more desire you have, the more likely you are to fail.
一旦患得患失，气度和魄力全无。
Once worried about personal gains and losses, tolerance and courage all lost.
一些人的欲望太强，恨不得一口吃成胖子，把每次机会都当成一夜暴富的救命稻草。于是患得患失，束手束脚，惊慌失措。
Some people's desire is so strong that they want to eat fat and treat every opportunity as a straw to get rich overnight. So worry about gains and losses, tied hands, panic.
世间的大部分失败，其实是败给了“在乎”二字。
Most of the world's failures, in fact, is the 'care' two words.
09
自在定律
看外界不顺眼，看外人不顺眼，往往是一个人的修行还不够。当你翻越千山，能包容一切的时候，你就不会有想不通的事。
It is often because one's practice is not enough that one finds the outside world or outsiders disagreeable. When you climb over a thousand mountains and can tolerate everything, there will be no mystery to you.
俗人都有世俗的一面，只不过每个人的世俗不同而已。
The common people have the common side, but each person's common side is different.
看一切人都是好人，看一切事都是好事，看一切境都是好境。
All people are good, all things are good, all circumstances are good.
原谅别人，才能活得轻松自在。
Forgive others, and you will live comfortably
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