恋爱总是以自欺开始， 以欺人结束。 这就是所谓的浪漫。

When one is in love, 

one always begins by deceiving oneself, 

and one always ends by deceiving others. 

That is what would calls a romance.

恋爱总是以自欺开始，

以欺人结束。

这就是所谓的浪漫。

——王尔德