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在迈向30岁前,有哪十件一定要做的事?

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What are 10 things that you should definitely do before turning 30?
在迈向30岁前,有哪十件一定要做的事?

Thaís Freitas

I just turned 30 and, in 2014, when I was 29, I sold my part in the company that I had, sold all my stuff, left the home that I owned to start living on rent again and moved to Canada to start a new career and a new life, with a lot of uncertainty and no fixed perspectives. All that because I was feeling unhappy and terribly bored with the way things were in my life back home. Am I too old for that? Do I regret anything? Absolutely not! I’ve never felt so good, so happy, so excited about the future and so accomplished. And will do it again - start over - anytime I feel like, no matter if I’m 40, 50 or 95.
我今年刚满三十岁。在去年(2014年),也就是我29岁的时候,我卖掉了自己持有的公司股份和所有的东西,离开了自己的房子,去了加拿大住出租屋,重新开始自己的事业和生活,尽管这样的生活充满了不确定性,别人也会对我的行为产生异议。这都归因于我对原来的生活感到苦闷和无聊。是不是因为自己不再年轻就不能这么折腾了?我这样做会后悔吗?当然不!我从来没有像现在这样,对未来感到如此的自信、开心、兴奋和有成就感。如果日后我仍觉得自己需要改变,即使我已经40、50甚至95岁了,我都会重新来过。

We gotta stop this whole craziness about doing everything while in the 20s, as if either you do that before 30 or you never do anymore. Life goes on and surprise: you are still the same person when you wake up 30 years old.
我们总是在20多岁的时候就停止疯狂地做任何事情,好像你只能在三十岁以前做这些事情要么这辈子都没法再疯狂一样。然而生活会这样继续着,然后你会发现:当你三十岁那天醒来的时候,你还是和之前一模一样。

So the bucket list I would suggest to you is:
所以我建议你的必做清单是这样的:
1) Get rid of that thread of thoughts putting so much pressure on you that you have to have all your life figured out before you’re 30. Life is a journey, it’s a constant change, and that’s what is magical about it. The changing and the moving will only end when you die, at age 15 or 130, it does not matter.
1) 避免因为“必须在30岁之前想清楚自己生命的意义”这样的思绪而给自己施加太大的压力。人生是一场持续不断的旅程,这正是它的魔力所在。只有在你死了以后它才会停止变化和前进,跟你今天是15岁还是130岁毫无关系。

2) Get to know yourself, learn what you like, what you care about, what you love. Appreciate the world, all the chances you have and allow yourself to fail and start again whenever you think it’s necessary. Don’t put so much pressure on yourself.
2) 好好地认识你自己,了解你所喜欢的、在意的、爱的东西。感激这个世界,感激你所拥有的机会,在你觉得必要的时候允许自己失败后再重来。别在自己身上施加太大的压力。

3) Tell the people who put pressure on you - about getting a definitive career, getting married, having kids or whatever else people like to care about in others’ lives that is none of their business - to fuck off. You know what you want, you know what is right for you and will do that when the time comes, it happens naturally. I felt way happier when I finally learned and accepted that.
3) 如果有人在那些他们感兴趣然而其实跟他们没有半毛钱关系的事情上给你施加压力的话,像是催你找铁饭碗、结婚、生小孩等等,送他们一句话:滚粗。你自己知道自己想要什么,怎样做是对你好的,然后会在时间成熟的时候完成这些事。很多事都会顺其自然地发生的。当我最后明白并且接受这一点的时候,我感觉更开心了。

4) Take very good care of your body and your health. Practice sports, work out, eat healthy. That’s the only thing that is really important to do before your 30s, and that will allow you to be free, able and happy in any age.
4) 顾好你的身体和健康。进行运动、锻炼和健康饮食。这是你30岁之前唯一一件真正重要的事情,它会让你在以后的任何一个年纪都觉得自己自由、能干和开心。

In all the rest, just enjoy the ride. All in all, it’s just a ride in the end, everything works out in one way or another. Good luck!
其他事也是一样,好好享受人生的旅行。总而言之,生命就是一场旅行,并且到最后,任何事都会用这样或者那样的方式实现的。祝你好运!

Anonymous

1.Hitchhike with a stranger and get to know the person.
1.搭上一个陌生人的便车,并且开始了解他。

2.Get lost in a random city, switch off GPS and roam unknown streets. Be open to uncertainties, plan less.
2.随便找个城市迷路一次。关掉GPS,在不知名的街道上漫步。让自己乐于接受不确定的事情,少做点计划。

3.Spend time with dogs/animals, it’s very spiritual : Dogs don’t give a damn about how much you have studied, how you look or how much money you have.
3.花时间和小狗或者其他小动物呆在一起,它们都富有灵性:小狗们不会在意你的学历高低、你的长相或者你的金钱多寡。

4.Develop a hobby, do something passionately just for yourself. Don’t measure it with money or something else. (Fall in love with some activity, and do it! Nobody ever figures out what life is all about, and it doesn’t matter - Feynman)
4.培养一个兴趣爱好,充满热情地为自己做件事情。不要用金钱或者是什么其他东西来衡量这件事。(Feynman曾经说过,如果你爱上某些活动,那么就去做吧!没有人能够搞清楚人生的全部真谛,但这也没什么大关系。)

5.Meditation, 15-20 mins of time into ‘pure nothingness’, the utmost relaxation possible. It’s like being in deep sleep and yet aware. Your inner peace is worth more than millions, more than anything that you can earn in life.
5.冥想。花15-20分钟的时间把自己完全放空,最大限度地放松自己。这就像深度睡眠然后醒来一样。你内心的平静要比几百万的财富或者说其他任何你这辈子能赚到的东西都更有价值。

6.Travel as a traveller and not as a tourist. Catch cheap flights, write a diary, collect silly stuffs and send post cards.
6.以一个旅行者而不是观光游客的身份去旅行。你可以搭乘廉价的航班,写旅途日记,收集一些旁人不会在意的玩意儿,寄明信片出去。

7.“Study hard what interests you the most in the most undisciplined, irreverent and original manner possible.” - Richard Feyman
7.Richard Feyman说:“尽可能用最随性、批判性和创新的方法努力学习你最感兴趣的东西。”

8.Enjoying life in slow motion, don’t be occupied so much. Everything you do need not have a purpose, just enjoy little acts to fullest. Be more spontaneous and less mechanical.
8.享受慢节奏的生活,不要把时间都排得满满当当。并不是做每件事都得带目的性,尽情享受生活每个小细节。让生活多一点自然,少一点呆板。

9.Question about God and existence, try to seek the truth instead of blind belief, be fearless.
9.多思考上帝和存在的问题,尝试探索真理而不盲目信仰,放开了去想。

10.Fall in love with an older woman/man once :)
10.和一个比你年长的人谈一场恋爱;)


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