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〖#每日TED#〗NO.118:只需专注10分钟

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TED简介:
听课时间
2014年11月1日星期六
课名
《只需专注10分钟》 All it takes is 10 mindful minutes
讲师
Andy Puddicombe
语言
英文
类型
心理 TED
视频链接
http://v.163.com/movie/2013/8/1/L/M94IULLG6_M94IURE1L.html
课程简介
上一次您10分钟什么都不做是什么时候?处于在一个没有短信、交谈、或思考的状况下?心灵专注专家安迪普迪科姆(AndyPuddicombe)描述的变革能力,只需这么做:每天清爽大脑(心灵)十分钟,只需专注和感悟“现在”。(不需要点焚香或者奇怪地打坐。)
个人感想:
AndyPuddicombe(安迪·普迪科姆)是一个英国人,曾经出家为僧,参访各种流派的禅修法门,从中获得很大利益。现在他投入的事业是帮助更多普通社会大众从禅修和正念修习中获益。2010年,他与人合作创设名为HeadSpace(头脑空间)的机构,提供辅助正念禅修的程序,一开始是“10分钟”系列,说明正念和禅修的要点,帮助人们入门,之后还有更多类型的正念禅修引导音频和视频。这家机构希望给大众提供一个“大脑健身房”,让每个人都能学习正念和禅修,并有所收获。今年《时代》周刊的封面文章《正念革命》中也有一段对他的报道,他提到“如果我们能够有意识地以正确的方法利用智能手机,那么它就不会给我们造成负面的影响和伤害,你用它实际上是为了摆脱它。”
Andy出版了一本书,名为Get Some Head
space: How Mindfulness Can Change Your Life in Ten Minutes aDay,中文名为《简单冥想术:激活你的潜在创造力》,内容充实而精彩,包括其个人经历和对禅修的体会总结,是本好书,能看出他的实修体验是相当深的。
通过这个TED,我发现安迪·普迪科姆不仅仅是一个禅修高手,而且还是一位杂技高手呢。
反复看了几遍这个TED,想找到他的这种冥想方式的真正方法和最终目的。最后,我明白了,他的禅修方式,并不是说要我们盘腿、焚香、药茶、素食,什么都不想、停止思考、摆脱感情等等,而是要我们在冥想的时候,让自己的灵魂退一步,或者说让灵魂飞出我们的身体,以另一种方式(可以说是在空中望着自己,也可以说是以另一种身份来看待自己)来审视自己的思虑和各种情感。

重点摘抄:
1、 “蜡烛问题”——“功能固着”。
2、 我们的大脑(心灵)平均 有将近47%的时间是迷失在各种思绪中。
3、 我们需要一些练习。我们需要一个架构 来学习如何变得专注。 这就是冥想的本质。
4、 但实际上冥想不是这样的。 它更多的是后退一步, 看清自己的思绪, 看见思绪来来去去,看见感情来来去去不加辨别,但以一种放松而专注的状态。
5、 我们要寻找一个平衡点,一种专注的放松 在这种状态下我们能让思绪自由来去 远离尘世的烦扰。
6、 冥想提供了 一个机会,提供了退一步的潜力 获得看事物的不同角度, 看到事情不总是它们外在表象的那样。
7、 我们不能改变 每一件生活中、发生在我们身上小事 但我们可以改变我们感受它的方式。 这就是冥想、专注力的潜力。
原文笔记:
我们生活在一个异常纷杂的世界。 生活的步调时常快得疯狂,我们的头脑(心灵)一直忙碌运转着, 而我们每时每刻都在做着事情
记住这点的同时,我希望你们能拿出一小会儿时间, 来想想,上一次自己什么都不做是什么时候? 仅仅10分钟,毫无干扰地?当我说什么都不做,就是什么都不做。 没有电子邮件、短信,没有互联网, 没有电视、聊天、食物、阅读, 甚至不包括坐着回想过去或者思考将来。 只是什么都不做。 我看到你们中很多茫然的脸。(笑声) 我的想法是,你们很可能要往后退很大一步。
而这是一件很离奇的事情,对吧? 我们说的是我们的大脑(心灵)。 大脑(心灵),对我们来说最珍贵的东西,我们通过它来体验生活中的每一个时刻, 全靠它(心灵) 我们作为一个个体,能感到幸福、满足、情感稳定, 同时在我们与他人的关系中变得善良与体贴。 靠着这个大脑(心灵) 我们能够专注、有创意、自觉, 并在我们做的所有事情中发挥自己的才能。然而,我们没有花哪怕一点时间来关心它。 事实上,相较而言,我们更关心自己的汽车 衣服和头发的时间都要更多---好吧,也许不包括我们的头发,但你们懂我想要说的。
而结果,当然是我们感到压力。 你们知道的,大脑(心灵)总是像一台洗衣机般飕飕运转 反反复复,许多复杂、令人困惑的感情,而我们却不真的知道怎么来应对, 可悲的事实是我们如此分心 以至于我们不再处在自己当下生活的这个世界。我们错过了对我们而言最重要的事情, 而疯狂的是每个人都只是以为, 哦,这就是生活,我们不得不这么过。但生活真的不必须成为这样子。
当我去上我第一节冥想课的时候 我只有11岁。 相信我,课里有所有你能想到的关于冥想的成见, 盘腿坐在地板上,焚香,药茶,素食主义者,全部东西, 但我妈妈当时参加了,而我也感兴趣,所以我跟她一起去了。 我还看了几部功夫电影,私下里我想我或许能学会怎么飞起来, 但我那时实在非常年轻。 我想,当我在那里的时候,像很多人一样,我假定那只是一颗给大脑(心灵)的阿司匹林。 当感到压力的时候,你就冥想一会。 我不曾真的考虑那本质上会是一种阻碍,直到我大约20岁,一些事情 在我的人生中接连地发生, 那是一些把我的生活整个颠倒的事情 而突然之间我被各种思绪淹没了,淹没在我不知道如何应付的复杂感情里。 每当我快要解决其中一个的时候, 另一个会又一次的冒出来。那真的是一段非常难熬的时间。
我想我们应对压力都有不同的方式。 有些人会把自己埋头到工作中, 用以分心不去想。 另一些人则会从朋友和家庭中寻求帮助。还有些人酗酒,或开始使用药品。 我自己当时的方式则是成为一名僧侣。 因此我退了学,去了喜马拉雅山,我成为了一名僧侣,并开始学习冥想。
人们常会问我从这段经历里学到了什么。 嗯,很显然它改变了很多事情。 面对这个事实,成为一名修行禁欲的僧侣 能够改变很多事情。但不仅如此 这个经历还教会我---使得我更能感悟“现在”, 对于“现在”这个时刻的有了更深的理解。 我指的是不迷失于思绪中,不被分心, 不被各种复杂的感情弄得不知所措, 相反地,我学会了如何感悟此地与此时, 如何变得专心,如何活在“现在”。
我认为“现在”这个时刻是被严重低估了。 它听起来如此平常,所以我们只花那么少时间 来对待“现在”,但是这个词绝对不“平凡”。就在最近,哈佛有一个调查的结果显示, 我们的大脑(心灵)平均 有将近47%的时间是迷失在各种思绪中。 百分之47。同时,这种持续的“大脑(心灵)徘徊” 也是导致人类不幸福的直接原因。 虽然不管怎样我们不会在此地待多长时间,但耗费大半人生迷失在思考中 并因此可能变得非常不幸福, 我不知道,这真的听起来太可悲了 尤其是当我们能有所为,改变这个现状的时候,当有一种积极的、实际的、能做到、 而且经过科学验证的技巧存在 它可以让我们的大脑变得更加健康, 更加专注并且更少分神。 它的妙处在于这只需要每天10分钟, 它可以对我们的整个人生造成巨大的影响。 但我们需要知道怎么做到。 我们需要一些练习。我们需要一个架构来学习如何变得专注。 这就是冥想的本质。 它使我们熟悉'现在'。 但我们也需要知道如何做到 用正确的方法来从中获得最多益处。而这就是冥想的作用,以防你们可能有点迷惑, 因为大多数人觉得 冥想是关于停止思考, 摆脱感情,以某种方式控制大脑(心灵),但实际上冥想不是这样的。 它更多的是后退一步, 看清自己的思绪, 看见思绪来来去去,看见感情来来去去不加辨别,但以一种放松而专注的状态。
打个比方,现在, 如果我太集中于这些球,那么我就无法 能够放松并同时与你们说话。 同样地,如果我太过于放松地跟你们说话,那我将无法专注在球上。我将会把球掉到地上。 而在生活里,在冥想中,有些时候 专注变得有点过于紧张, 而生活开始变得有点像这样。当你变得这样紧张, 你将活的非常难受。 在其他时候,我们或许会把脚放得离油门有点过远(过于放松), 而这将变得像这样。而在冥想中——(鼾声)—— 我们最后就会睡着。 因此我们要寻找一个平衡点,一种专注的放松 在这种状态下我们能让思绪自由来去远离尘世的烦扰。

现在,当我们学会专注通常会发生就是 是我们被一个想法打扰。 比如说这是一个焦虑的思绪。比如所以事情都一切顺利,然后我们发现了焦急的思绪, 它就像:'哦,我居然没意识到我的烦恼'。 你关注它,并且重复它。“哦,我很担心。哦,我真的很担心。哇,有这么多的焦虑。” 和之前我们意识到它相比,对吧, 我们为焦虑的感觉而焦虑。你知道,这很不正常。我们总是在想这些, 甚至在日常生活的状态下。 如果你想想最后一次,我不知道, 你有一颗松动的牙。你知道它是一颗松动的牙,并且你知道它很痛。 但你每20,30 秒就关注它一下吗? (嘴里喃喃)真的很痛。我们加重了痛苦,对吧?我们只不断告诉自己, 我们总是这样。只有学会 以随其自然方式处理思维(心灵) 学习让这些事情和思维模式来去自如。但当你坐下来,以这种方式看思维(心灵), 您可能会看到许多不同的模式。 您可能会发现是真的不安分的心- 所有时刻。不要感到惊讶,如果你觉得你有点焦虑 当你坐下来什么也不做,感觉就像,你的头脑焦虑。 您可能会发现是很枯燥和无聊的头脑(心灵),它只是几乎机械重复, 这好像你 起床,去工作、 吃饭、 睡觉、 起床、 工作。或者它可能只是一个微小挥之不去的思绪 不停的在你头脑中转。 嗯,无论它是什么,冥想提供了 一个机会,提供了退一步的潜力获得看事物的不同角度, 看到事情不总是它们外在表象的那样。 我们不能改变 每一件生活中、发生在我们身上小事但我们可以改变我们感受它的方式。 这就是冥想、专注力的潜力。 你不需要烧香 你不一定要坐在地板上。 您需要做的一切就是每天花10 分钟思绪中退一步,熟悉自己所处的“现在” 这样,你可以在生活里 体验更多的专注、 平静和清澈。
英语单词:
frantic 狂乱的,疯狂的
meditation 冥想;沉思,深思
intrigued 令人好奇的,好奇的,被迷住了的
inundate 淹没;泛滥;浸水;(洪水般的)扑来
wobbly 不稳定的;摆动的;歪斜的
agitate 摇动;骚动;使…激动;煽动
下一步行动:
1、 熟看本笔记3遍;
2、 看他的书《简单冥想术:激活你的潜在创造力》;
3、 学习他的10分钟禅修系列;
附录:英文原文:
We live in an incredibly busy world. The pace of life is oftenfrantic, our minds are always busy, and we're always doingsomething.
So with that in mind, I'd like you just to take a moment to think,when did you last take any time to do nothing? Just 10 minutes,undisturbed? And when I say nothing, I do mean nothing. So that'sno emailing, texting, no Internet, no TV, no chatting, no eating,no reading, not even sitting there reminiscing about the past orplanning for the future. Simply doing nothing. I see a lot of veryblank faces. (Laughter) My thinking is, you probably have to go along way back.
And this is an extraordinary thing, right? We're talking about ourmind. The mind, our most valuable and precious resource, throughwhich we experience every single moment of our life, the mind thatwe rely upon to be happy, content, emotionally stable asindividuals, and at the same time to be kind and thoughtful andconsiderate in our relationships with others. This is the same mindthat we depend upon to be focused, creative, spontaneous, and toperform at our very best in everything that we do. And yet, wedon't take any time out to look after it. In fact, we spend moretime looking after our cars, our clothes and our hair than we —okay, maybe not our hair, but you see where I'm going.
The result, of course, is that we get stressed. You know, the mindwhizzes away like a washing machine going round and round, lots ofdifficult, confusing emotions, and we don't really know how to dealwith that, and the sad fact is that we are so distracted that we'reno longer present in the world in which we live. We miss out on thethings that are most important to us, and the crazy thing is thateverybody just assumes, well, that's the way life is, so we've justkind of got to get on with it. That's really not how it has tobe.
So I was about 11 when I went along to my first meditation class.And trust me, it had all the stereotypes that you can imagine, thesitting cross-legged on the floor, the incense, the herbal tea, thevegetarians, the whole deal, but my mom was going and I wasintrigued, so I went along with her. I'd also seen a few kung fumovies, and secretly I kind of thought I might be able to learn howto fly, but I was very young at the time. Now as I was there, Iguess, like a lot of people, I assumed that it was just an aspirinfor the mind. You get stressed, you do some meditation. I hadn'treally thought that it could be sort of preventative in nature,until I was about 20, when a number of things happened in my lifein quite quick succession, really serious things which just flippedmy life upside down and all of a sudden I was inundated withthoughts, inundated with difficult emotions that I didn't know howto cope with. Every time I sort of pushed one down, another onewould just sort of pop back up again. It was a really verystressful time.
I guess we all deal with stress in different ways. Some people willbury themselves in work, grateful for the distraction. Others willturn to their friends, their family, looking for support. Somepeople hit the bottle, start taking medication. My own way ofdealing with it was to become a monk. So I quit my degree, I headedoff to the Himalayas, I became a monk, and I started studyingmeditation.
People often ask me what I learned from that time. Well, obviouslyit changed things. Let's face it, becoming a celibate monk is goingto change a number of things. But it was more than that. It taughtme -- it gave me a greater appreciation, an understanding for thepresent moment. By that I mean not being lost in thought, not beingdistracted, not being overwhelmed by difficult emotions, butinstead learning how to be in the here and now, how to be mindful,how to be present.
I think the present moment is so underrated. It sounds so ordinary,and yet we spend so little time in the present moment that it'sanything but ordinary. There was a research paper that came out ofHarvard, just recently, that said on average our minds are lost inthought almost 47 percent of the time. Forty-seven percent. At thesame time, this sort of constant mind-wandering is also a directcause of unhappiness. Now we're not here for that long anyway, butto spend almost half of our life lost in thought and potentiallyquite unhappy, dunno, it just kind of seems tragic, actually,especially when there's something we can do about it, when there'sa positive, practical, achievable, scientifically proven techniquewhich allows our mind to be more healthy, to be more mindful andless distracted. And the beauty of it is that even though it needonly take about 10 minutes a day, it impacts our entire life. Butwe need to know how to do it. We need an exercise. We need aframework to learn how to be more mindful. That's essentially whatmeditation is. It's familiarizing ourselves with the presentmoment. But we also need to know how to approach it in the rightway to get the best from it. And that's what these are for, in caseyou've been wondering, because most people assume that meditationis all about stopping thoughts, getting rid of emotions, somehowcontrolling the mind, but actually it's quite different from that.It's more about stepping back, seeing the thought clearly,witnessing it coming and going, emotions coming and going withoutjudgment, but with a relaxed, focused mind.
So for example, right now, if I focus too much on the balls, thenthere's no way that I can relax and talk to you at the same time.Equally, if I relax too much talking to you, then there's no way Ican focus on the balls. I'm going to drop them. Now in life, and inmeditation, there'll be times when the focus becomes a little bittoo intense, and life starts to feel a bit like this. It's a veryuncomfortable way to live life, when you get this tight andstressed. At other times, we might take our foot off the gas alittle bit too much, and things just become a sort of little bitlike this. Of course in meditation — (Snores) — we're going to endup falling asleep. So we're looking for a balance, a focusedrelaxation where we can allow thoughts to come and go without allthe usual involvement.
Now, what usually happens when we're learning to be mindful is thatwe get distracted by a thought. Let's say this is an anxiousthought. So everything's going fine, and then we see the anxiousthought, and it's like, 'Oh, didn't realize I was worried aboutthat.' You go back to it, repeat it. 'Oh, I am worried. Oh, Ireally am worried. Wow, there's so much anxiety.' And before weknow it, right, we're anxious about feeling anxious. You know, thisis crazy. We do this all the time, even on an everyday level. Ifyou think about the last time, I dunno, you had a wobbly tooth. Youknow it's wobbly, and you know that it hurts. But what do you doevery 20, 30 seconds? (Mumbling) It does hurt. And we reinforce thestoryline, right? And we just keep telling ourselves, and we do itall the time. And it's only in learning to watch the mind in thisway that we can start to let go of those storylines and patterns ofmind. But when you sit down and you watch the mind in this way, youmight see many different patterns. You might find a mind that'sreally restless and -- the whole time. Don't be surprised if youfeel a bit agitated in your body when you sit down to do nothingand your mind feels like that. You might find a mind that's verydull and boring, and it's just, almost mechanical, it just seemsit's as if you're getting up, going to work, eat, sleep, get up,work. Or it might just be that one little nagging thought that justgoes round and round and round your mind. Well, whatever it is,meditation offers the opportunity, the potential to step back andto get a different perspective, to see that things aren't always asthey appear. We can't change every little thing that happens to usin life, but we can change the way that we experience it. That'sthe potential of meditation, of mindfulness. You don't have to burnany incense, and you definitely don't have to sit on the floor. Allyou need to do is to take 10 minutes out a day to step back, tofamiliarize yourself with the present moment so that you get toexperience a greater sense of focus, calm and clarity in yourlife.
Thank you very much. (Applause)
尾注:
大家好,我是止滔,网名可以理解为停止浮沉、回归沉稳;也可以理解为女娲的“聚芦灰以止滔水”的远大理想;还可以理解为正在修行“止学”中的“韬”(我)。在自己的人生路上,我正在不断探索与修炼,历经荆棘,等待花开。
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