每日心语

能让你精致的，除了化妆品，最厉害的是知识、努力和爱。很多时候我们害怕的不是一个人的离开，怕的是那个人留下来的习惯，因为ta已经融入到了你的生活中，一时间的离开，会让你变得不适应，就好像生活中缺少了什么一样。

What makes you delicate, besides cosmetics, is knowledge, effort and love. Most of the time, we are not afraid of the departure of a person, but of the habits left behind by that person, because TA has been integrated into your life, leaving for a while will make you unfit, just like what is missing in life.

人生中大多数的痛苦不是别人给你造成的，而是自己跟自己过不去。实际上，每个人都会遭受到两支箭的攻击：第一支箭是外界射向你的，它就是我们经常遇到的困难和挫折本身；第二支箭是自己射向自己的，它就是因困难和挫折而产生的负面情绪。

Most of the pain in life is not caused by others, but by oneself. In fact, everyone will be attacked by two arrows: the first arrow is shot at you from outside, it is the difficulties and setbacks we often encounter; the second arrow is shot at ourselves, it is the negative emotions caused by difficulties and setbacks.