等待深呼吸，双鱼座？深吸一口气，再呼出去。从07年开始，你已经在赚取自己名副其实的“关系博士学位”。最终，这个月，你的马拉松到了终点。过去的五年里，你在关系宫（夫妻宫，第七宫）里招待了严厉的土星，（关系宫）就像一个关于承诺的训练基地，或者类似的。好的一面？嗯。。你已经被水晶净化过你的优先考虑的事，你的价值观，在对所有关系上的举止言行。不管是商务关系，友谊还是罗曼史。
从07年九月到09年，土星在处女，你的承诺的关系宫。从那个时候开始，困难任务专家土星就到了天秤。你的第八宫。关于性的一宫。亲密行为，共享信息的一宫。
在过去的三年里，你不再给你的ONS对象家里的钥匙，车或者真心。（而且，我们甚至不用去谈从第二次约会开始的关于婚姻的神奇物语。） 你已经继续着眼并且慢慢利用时间去了解你的对爱的点（原文是interest。），有些你这个总是梦幻、沉浸在梦中的星座通常不会做的事。回报，虽然，可以是真正的一段亲密关系--婚姻，家庭，共同生活，一个百分百忠诚的伴侣，一个你可以信任的人。但是现实却不是，这些事情被过高过好的预估。有些双鱼甚至可能，学会了如何一个人单飞，并且爱着这种状态。对你这个严重支持一夫一妻制的星座而言，是很大的一步。
★★★爱情与浪漫关系
譯者：金書韦 (待校)
鱼鱼们，准备迎接一场双人舞吧！整个月代表爱情的金星转入代表亲密关系的处女座第七宫。有伴侣的你，正是展现浪漫的最佳时间点。放点浪漫又性感的音乐（或许是可以放双鱼座歌手妮娜·西蒙）来场丰盛的美食飨宴、烛光晚餐或充满甜蜜的泡泡浴吧！
十月大方的展现「协调」的艺术，屏除过去的坚持，除了你自己充满说服力的原则外，现在正是时候打开心房倾听另一半的需要跟渴望，请保持开放以及真诚的关心。如果你单身，此刻是遇到另一伴的最佳时间点，一个能让你家人喜爱，并愿意与你一同付出努力去经营一段关系的人。
代表性感的火星整个月都将停在代表华丽的射手座第十宫。现在起，开始安排每一场约会吧，即便只是下班后的小酌。抛弃在街角沟渠旁的小酒吧，打扮的比平常亮眼，迎接安排场场五星级的饭店飨宴！如果你选择轻便的服装，别忘了加些亮点，例如在剪裁合适的外套之下，加上件性感的紧身洋装。表现你是个典雅端庄(能带回家见父母的那种)，却也准备好迎接狂野的夜晚。就如同俗语说的：「进得了家门，出得了厅堂，上得了床。」你将能妥善驾驭这样的双重面向。别想太多，动作吧！
在自信提升的部分，土星在处女座，你代表承诺关系的宫位，经历了两年半(前文写07-09年9月)的停留，又在天秤座(代表亲密关系-性的宫位)待了三年，五年的考验终于落幕。这五年，你忙于处理沉重的爱情。土星设下了隔阂，某些情况，说是阻碍更为贴切。你可能跟情人因为某些困难的情况而分离：远距离、工作太忙、需求的不平衡、离婚(让你在道德水准高的朋友前不得不躲藏)。但不论过去发生什么－极少的约会、身体接触、对性高度的渴望－都让你培养了一仓库的耐心。
或者，那个时刻的你变得比较自闭，不想亲近别人。秘密、容易受伤、结婚誓言－就像星带(Zodiac)中的鱼鱼们，努力地躲避被渔夫的渔网。找出你自己是谁？你真的要什么？尝试用不同的生活方式去面对，即使你勇于前进，仍需要一点勇气。不过，土星停驻在你的关系宫，给你带来最大的好处是经历重重困难所学得的经验，你不会这么快地忘记它们。你可能经历不只一段痛苦的分离；或一段现实无法承担梦幻般的爱情；或者是你拥有一个教导你无条件、永恒爱情的小孩。我想，你知道现在的你想要的是什么，若没有，至少你明确的知道你不要的是什么。现在正是一个最好的起点。
相信你是个协调(妥协)高手吗？我想你会在这中间发现一点端倪(即使不是难以破除的砖墙)。或许你担心沉浸在爱情中，会失去你自己或者自由，或感觉无聊。当然，每个人总是多少对此有些疑虑，但这几年你已经练就如何打败空虚、以及生命中每个可怕的部分。可能你已经学会如何保有自己以及何时投入心力。总之，你清楚明了什么是重要的，不是那些童话般的理想爱情。先前，你努力地克服种种障碍，土星也为你留下了部分的礼物：结束不愉快的爱情、坚实拥有快乐结局的灵魂伴侣、结婚或真实的约定。你怎么会知道？这一切的结局将比你能想起的好莱坞的剧情更美好。为什么？因为这些正是属于你的，鱼鱼们，这是真的。
MONTHLY OVERVIEW
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Over the last three years, you may have suffered a loss or carried the burden of caring for an ailing loved one, perhaps needing to rely on your inner circle for support in ways that stretched your comfort level. One Pisces we know lost a parent during this transit and surprised herself by how much she needed to lean on her people (who were all too happy to help, it should be noted). Sober Saturn in Libra taught you to open up a little more than usual, to soften up, allowing people into those mysterious Pisces depths you keep hidden. Being vulnerable wasn’t so bad, was it?
Other items on Saturn’s curriculum? You may have gotten schooled in business, particularly about joining forces with others and working out the nitty-gritty details, such as how much revenue to share, how to budget better and how to be more resourceful overall. These were not easy lessons—perhaps you encountered messy conflicts with your new partners—but the good news is, you either worked it out or walked away.
Lucky for you, if there are lingering intimacy issues, the energizing Sun is in Libra the first three weeks of the month, making this an ideal time to get real with yourself on what’s standing in the way of true love and intimacy. You’re in a serious mood for love, preferring to cozy up with your honey than to be out partying with the masses. On October 15, the new moon in Libra, your eighth house of soul-merging, will give you another chance to truly open up to your love. You want the unvarnished truth, and you want it now. If you’re single or partnered, this is a chance to peel back another layer, exposing and expressing yourself to your honey, or even just yourself.
On October 6, Saturn moves into Scorpio, your ninth house of optimism, global travel and higher education. Great news: the next three years bring a MUCH easier Saturn transit. You may decide to return to school for that degree in anthropology you always wanted. Or you could find yourself traveling more for work. Even if you’re sent to new locales— Kuala Lumpur, Mumbai, Cleveland—you may be aching to get away entirely on a work-free vacation. With Saturn’s hard work ethic, pleasure trips will be harder to pull off now, and may need to be scheduled well in advance. Don’t be a martyr and waste your vacation days, as so many people actually do. Just try to enjoy the vistas wherever you go and indulge in some quality R&R in your hotel room—(bonus!) on the company dime. You may even learn a new language or trade, perhaps opting for law school or applying to a Ph.D. program. Or you might just take your spiritual discipline more seriously, carving out regular time for meditation, yoga and prayer. It could be time to hang your own entrepreneurial shingle, turning a hobby into a profitable venture. The world is your oyster…as long as you’re willing to work for it.
Your home life could have a couple of bumpy patches, as Jupiter goes retrograde (backward) in Gemini, your fourth house of home and family, from October 4 until late January. For the next four months, you’ll be feeling pretty internal and reflective on all domestic matters. If you have a move planned, you may decide to delay it, based on unforeseen factors, like, say a leaky ceiling. Perhaps you’ll feel some tension with your relatives, especially the female members of your family. Addressing them openly and honestly is the way to go with truth-telling Jupiter retrograde—but do add a special measure of tact when you express yourself. This is an excellent time to reconnect with old relatives from afar or female friends with whom you’ve lost touch. A trip to your hometown could shed some light on old, nagging issues. Perhaps you’ll be reminded that your childhood wasn’t as tragic (or idyllic, for that matter), as you’ve spent the last 20 years making it out to be. Seeing your roots through objective eyes might be just the truth serum you need.
LOVE & ROMANCE
Prepare to dance the two-step, Pisces, as love planet Venus swirls through Virgo, your seventh house of relationships all month. If you’re in a couple, this is a perfect time to get your romance on. Light candles and treat your sweetheart to a decadent bubble bath. Queue up some sexy music (perhaps by your Piscean sister, Nina Simone) and serve a gorgeous gourmet meal.
Oh, and work the fine art of compromise. Instead of insisting, in your subtle yet persuasive way, on playing by your rules, now is the time to listen carefully to your partner’s needs and desires, too. Stay open and truly consider both sides. If you’re single, this is a perfect time to meet someone who is real relationship material, someone you’d actually bring home to Mom and who’s willing to put in equal effort to form a strong alliance.
All month, sexy Mars is barreling through Sagittarius, your swanky and sophisticated 10th house. Now is the time to go upscale on your dates or even just for after-work drinks. Ditch the dingy corner pub in favor of a classic hotel bar. Look your five-star best this month, dressing up a little more than usual. If you opt for business casual, show some edge, perhaps adding a sexy bustier underneath a well-cut jacket. Appear like the class act you are—someone worthy of meeting the parents—but also someone who’s up for a wild night. You know, that whole “charming on the streets, freak in the sheets” deal that your dualistic sign does so well. Work it!
Also in the confidence-boosting column, serious Saturn is finally exiting Libra, your eighth house of intimacy, after a challenging three-year stay. This, of course, came on the heels of two and a half years of Saturn in Virgo, your house of partnerships. During this five-year stretch, you’ve dealt with your fair share of heaviness on the relationship front. Saturn rules boundaries, but in some cases, they felt more like barriers. You may have been separated from your sweetheart due to tough circumstances: living in different cities, heavy work schedules, one of you caring for a relative in need, a divorce that took forever to finalize (making you a bit secretive with your more judgmental friends). Whatever it was, you had to cultivate a storehouse of patience, even having less of the date nights, physical touch, and transcendent sex you craved.
Or, perhaps you were the one who was less than emotionally available at times. Intimacy, vulnerability, marriage vows—well, to some of the Zodiac’s fishies, that’s akin to being caught in a fisherman’s net. Figuring out who you are and what you want—and then trying it on for size with another living, breathing human being? That took some courage—if you even dared to go there. However, the beauty of Saturn shaking your relationship foundation to its core is that these hard-won lessons shall not soon be forgotten. Maybe you’ve experienced more than one painful split. Or you’ve had to come to terms with a fantasy love being unbearable in reality. Or you had a child, teaching you the REAL meaning of unconditional, permanent love. You know what you want now…or at least, what you DON’T want. It’s a good place to start.
Thought you were a pro at compromise? Well, you may have discovered a few, uh, limits there, too (if not actual brick walls). Perhaps you feared losing yourself or your freedom if you got too deeply involved with your sweetheart…or maybe getting “bored.” Sure, everyone deals with that one some level, but these last few years, you really had to stare down your fears about emptiness, that dreaded part of our existence. Perhaps you learned when to hold your ground and when to give in. You figured out, in short, what really matters (and it’s not the idealized, fairy tale version of love). Since you’ve been working your fingers to the bone on this front, Saturn may just leave a parting gift, if he hasn’t already: the end of a toxic relationship or the happily-ever-after of a solid soul mate, marriage or a real-deal commitment. Whaddya know: this way better than any Hollywood ending you could conjure. Why? Because it’s yours to keep, Pisces. Truly.
MONEY & CAREER
Cue up your espresso machine. With motivator Mars in Sagittarius, your 10th house of ambition and professional coups, this month is an incredible time to plant seeds that could have a long-term impact on your career. Expect to have a packed work calendar this month, as new opportunities come flying in. If you want the challenge of stretching your limits and taking your talents more seriously, you’ll be thrilled with all that the new projects, gigs and honors coming your way. This is a great time to really put yourself out there as an expert in your field. Take those headshots, build your website, print up some business cards and start passing them out. And don’t let us hear the whole “I’m not ready” excuse. You’re as ready as you’ll ever be, so put yourself out there and let go-getter Mars take care of the rest. A little hustle will pay off big-time.
Speaking of easing up, sober Saturn is leaving Libra, your eighth house of joint finances, on October 6. Can we get an amen? Saturn’s placement here has been tough on money matters, though its trials have certainly pushed you to treat your money and property with newfound respect. Perhaps you had to scrimp in brand-new ways, streamlining your budget, even if it meant (gasp!) at-home pedicures. But using your precious resources—and yes, that includes time—more wisely made you all the richer in spirit. Perhaps you got laden with an unexpected tax bill, or your interest rates went through the roof. You could have experienced a painful business (or even personal) divorce, leaving a beloved project orphaned, or at least adrift, while you hashed out new terms. If you were trying to unload property, you could have had some issues selling and been saddled with high property taxes in the interim. Maybe your partner experienced a setback or job loss, putting you in the provider hot seat.
Saturn’s effect can really slow movement down, creating annoying burdens. The silver lining, though, is that it also presses you to find creative solutions. We know one Pisces who went into business for herself after losing her lucrative day gig on Wall Street. She’d always wanted to try her hand at design, but was too gun-shy, given the fiscal risks. When she lost her safety net, she said, “What the hell?” and took a gigantic and ultimately successful leap in starting up her own storefront. If you had to let go of a money pit or a possession that was psychically and financially draining, rest assured: you needed to unburden yourself, as hard as it was to say goodbye.
So all that painful recounting ends with good news: the hard times are over! On October 6, structured Saturn moves into Scorpio, your ninth house of higher education, where it will stay for the next three years. This is a great time to return to school, especially if you’ve had your eye on a certain degree or certificate program, perhaps in nursing, law or interior design. Building your skillset and knowledge base can help you get ahead. Consider doing transformational work to help you understand people. No matter what your industry, you’ll benefit from learning about what moves and motivates others. Plus, Scorpio energy is all about lifting the hood of the metaphorical car, to find out what makes everything tick. As a naturally intuitive sign, you’ll thrive in this energy. So use it to your advantage by learning how to be more persuasive and better at sales.
In essence, you’re selling yourself. Now is the time to project confidence and enthusiasm. You have your own brand of magic, where certain contacts, jobs, and helpful people just seem to fall perfectly into place, as if without effort. In reality, your strong spiritual vibrations are attracting these “lucky” opportunities. So why not place a little value on your innate gifts and manifesting powers, instead of treating them as just business as usual? Not everyone can put a finger on the collective pulse like you can—and that’s quite a skill. Amplify your image as someone who’s compassionate AND capable, friendly but not flaky.
HEALTH: MIND, BODY & SOUL
Take your hands off the wheel, Pisces. By now, you have a clear picture of what it means to let go, or as Imogen Heap sings, of “beauty in the breakdown.” Saturn in Libra, your eighth house of intimacy and cleansing, brought this lesson home on so many levels for the last three years. Hopefully, you were proactive in drawing lines around all the crap that doesn’t serve your higher purpose, like, say, the toxic boyfriend, your wine habit, using sex for power, the list goes on. Otherwise, your control issues could have very well manifested as an illness—or just straight up codependence, where you soaked up toxic vibes from those around you, loved ones and strangers alike. Saturn loves boundaries, and if you failed to insert them where appropriate, you felt the consequences in real-time. Saturn delivers its messages through tangible form. Whether you ailed from sudden migraines or a drained bank account…the smoke signals were clear: it was time to balance between giving and receiving, to know when to hold on and when to let go.
After several setbacks, you likely made changes to your lifestyle and habits so that you could stop swimming upstream and go with Saturn in Libra’s spiritual and metaphysical flow. Maybe you strengthened your connections to all that is mystical and unseen, putting your faith in the spiritual world, since the material world seemed so fraught. Otherwise, you may have gotten depressed or felt defeated, which is always dangerous territory for Pisces, who can easily slip into a victim mind-set. Mantra, anyone?
Fortunately, this trend ends October 6, not to return for another 30 years, when you’ll be older and wiser. Between now and 2015, Saturn visits Scorpio, your ninth house of optimism. This trend can renew whatever faith has been tarnished. It also pulls you out of isolation and connects you to some truly wise and inspiring people. Open up to community, especially people on a higher frequency.
So if you’re seeking and open to religion, march on down to your local church, synagogue, mosque, temple or whatever appeals to you. A spiritual home base will make a big difference in keeping the faith. If you’re already ensconced in a spiritual community, open yourself up to meeting a mentor or just looking at your own sense of transcendence from a fresh perspective. For the next three years, open your heart as you study, explore, travel and seek. Cultivate reverence for life’s deepest mysteries.
You’ll be all the happier to have a home away from home, as your own address could get a little dodgy sometimes. On October 4, benefic Jupiter goes retrograde (backward) in Gemini your fourth house of home, roots and nurturing. This four-month stretch is an excellent time to revamp your relationships with family, especially the women in your life. Use this time of reevaluation to see them in a new light. Take a step back and view the others for who they really are—and not who you insist they should be. If you’ve been codependently trying to get this person to see the light, take a page from Colin Tipping’s brilliant book “Radical Forgiveness,” ditching the old “I’m OK, you’re OK” platitude for a more real “I’m not OK, you’re not OK, but that’s OK” mantra. Try this healthy approach as much as you need to, especially when conflict heats up. You’ll be pleasantly surprised at the amount of oxygen this breathes into old, outworn dynamics.
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