痛苦的错误让我的态度从“我知道我是对的”转变成会思考“如何知道我是对的?”。它们给予我足够的谦逊,以平衡我的大胆无畏。
知道自己可能会犯大错,以及想了解其他聪明人能用什么不同视角来看待事物的好奇心,促使我从自己的视角同时也从别人的视角来看待事物。这比仅用自己的视角多了很多维度来看待事物。学会如何衡量人们的意见并从中选择最好的 ,换句话说,就是对我的决策进行可信度加权,这样能提高我做出正确决策的概率,是非常美妙的事情。
My painful mistakes shifted me from having a perspective of 'I know I'm right' to having one of 'How do I know I'm right?' They gave me the humility I needed to balance my audacity.
Knowing that I could be painfully wrong and curiosity about why other smart people saw things
differently prompted me to look at things through the eyes of others as well as my own. That allowed me to see many more dimensions than if I saw things just through my own eyes. Learning how to weigh people’s inputs so that I chose the best ones—in other words, so that I believability-weighted my decision making—increased my chances of being right and was thrilling.
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