对你来说，最重要的价值观是什么？

现在，我希望你思考一个问题：你最珍视的东西是什么？这样你就能明确你的目标， 并找到最适合你的原则。你的价值观是你根深蒂固的信念，这些信念激励你的行为，决定你与他人能否和谐相处。通过与心理学家交谈以及我自身的经历，我认识到，人的愿望来自1）他们的本性以及2）他们试图满足的内心深处的潜意识需求，这些需求是由他们的本性和已经不记得的经历结合而成的。

I’d now like you to reflect on what you value the most so you can clarify your goals and get at the best principles for you. Your values are the deep-seated beliefs that motivate your behaviors and determine your compatibility with other people. I’ve learned from conversations with psychologists and from my own experiences that what people want arises from them a) being wired a certain way and b) trying to satisfy subliminal needs that are deeply hidden within them and that were formed by the combination of their nature and experiences they had but don’t remember.