母亲恨婴儿（即使是儿子）的18个理由
道理只讲一半不好，如果母亲和孩子共情很好，那时候会非常美妙，如同天堂。
如果反过来就是如下面18条，处处无情。
A. The baby is not her own (mental) conception.
1.婴儿不是她自己的精神产物。
B. The baby is not the one of childhood play, father's child, brother's child, etc.
2.婴儿不是童年游戏，也不是爸爸的孩子，哥哥的孩子，等等。
C. The baby is not magically produced.
3.婴儿不是变魔术一样就能造出来的。
D. The baby is a danger to her body in pregnancy and at birth.
4.在怀孕和生产的时候，婴儿对她的身体是个危险。
E. The baby is an interference with her private life, a challenge to preoccupation.
5.婴儿对她的私生活是个干扰，一个得全神贯注的挑战。
F. To a greater or lesser extent a mother feels that her own mother demands a baby, so that her baby is produced to placate her mother.
6.母亲或多或少觉得自己的妈需要一个小孩，所以自己的小孩是生出来安抚她的。
G. The baby hurts her nipples even by suckling, which is at first a chewing activity.
7.婴儿吃奶让她的乳头痛，一开始根本是嚼。
H. He is ruthless, treats her as scum, an unpaid servant, a slave.
8.他无情，待她如废物、免费仆人、奴隶。
I. She has to love him, excretions and all, at any rate at the beginning, till he has doubts about himself.
9.她只得爱他、他的排泄物及一切，至少一开始得是这样，直到他开始怀疑自身。
J. He tries to hurt her, periodically bites her, all in love.
10.他努力伤害她，时不时咬她，还全TMD是因为爱。
K. He shows disillusionment about her.
11.他显示出不再信任和眷恋她。
L. His excited love is cupboard love, so that having got what he wants he throws her away like orange peel.
12.他激动的爱是对碗橱的爱，这样得到了他想要的东西之后，他就弃她不顾如同橘子皮。
M. The baby at first must dominate, he must be protected from coincidences, life must unfold at the baby's rate and all this needs his mother's continuous and detailed study. For instance, she must not be anxious when holding him, etc.
13.婴儿一开始肯定至高无上，他必须被保护免于意外，生活必须以婴儿的步调进行，所有这些都需要母亲不断周到地学习。比如，她不可以在抱着他的时候焦虑，等等。
N. At first he does not know at all what she does or what she sacrifices for him. Especially he cannot allow for her hate.
14.一开始他一丁点儿都不知道她做了什么、为他牺牲了什么。特别是他不准她恨。
O. He is suspicious, refuses her good food, and makes her doubt herself, but eats well with his aunt.
15.他多疑，拒绝她提供的好食物，令她怀疑自己，但是跟七大姑八大姨家吃得就很香。
P. After an awful morning with him she goes out, and he smiles at a stranger, who says: 'Isn't he sweet!'
16.跟他过了一个可怕的早上之后出门，他对着陌生人微笑，人家说：他多可爱啊是吧！
Q. If she fails him at the start she knows he will pay her out for ever.
17.如果她一开始辜负了他，她知道他会永远报复她。
R. He excites her but frustrates—she mustn't eat him or trade in sex with him.
18.他让她兴奋又受挫——她不能吃了他，又不能拿性生活跟他谈条件。
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