True love is magical. True love is mystical?Right? Well, kind of. But it’s more than that, as anyone in a relationship can tell you. Read on to find ten things you need to know about true love.
真爱是种奇迹。真爱很神秘的，对吧？好吧，某种程度上是的。但是往往都是那样的，你的另一半能给你答案。以下这9件与真爱有关的事，你都应该知道。
1. True love is not about finding yourself in another.
真爱不是找到另一个自己
Don’t fall in love, or think you’re in love, just because you want to find yourself. Your identity is not to be someone’s other half?it’s to be yourself! Don’t get so swept up in your partner that you become them. You don’t need to be the number one fan of their favorite band or read all the books they read. Keep your interests and hobbies and you’ll be more interesting to, and interested in, your partner.
要是你想找的是另一个自己，就不要恋爱，也不要认为你在恋爱。你也不是他人的一部份---你就是你自己！不要无条件的让别人改变自己。你也不必附庸别人的喜好，读别人喜欢的书籍。坚持自己的喜好，这样反而更能增加自己的魅力。
2. Self love is the best way to find true love.
寻找真爱的最好方式就是爱自己
It sounds like a cliche, something your mom and girlfriends told you every time you were crying over a broken heart, but it’s true?you must love yourself before you can love anyone else. Be comfortable with yourself, even when you’re having a bad day. Know who you really are, deep down inside, and know what you want to do with your life. Being in love with yourself and having your life on track are not only incredibly self-satisfying, they’re really attractive qualities to a partner.
听起来就会觉得很啰嗦，就像你妈妈和你的女性朋友在你嚎啕大哭或是心碎时对你说的那些话似的，但是这是事实----再爱上别人之前你得爱你自己。即使那一天并不顺利，你也得让自己觉得舒服才可以。从心底里明白自己到底是个怎样的人，知道你自己想要过的到底什么样的人。爱你自己，按照你自己的意愿生活不仅能让实现自我满足，也是能吸引异性的法宝。
3. True love is not demanding.
真爱不是为了满足需求
Your partner should never ask you to change if you’re truly loved. And if you truly love your partner, you shouldn’t expect him to change. You got into a relationship because you liked each other, and you grew to love each other as you are. Why would you need to change someone you love so deeply? Accept them as they are, and you’ll get that consideration in return.
要是真正爱你的人，他是不会要求你为他改变的。要是你真的爱你的另一半，你也不应该想要去改变他。谈恋爱是因为你们真正互相喜欢，你们俩人肯定都是像你一样深爱着对方。为什么你要去改变那个你深爱着的人呢？接受真正的那个他，你们能够做到互相体谅。
4. True love allows you to be yourself.
真爱是让你做真正的自己
Being yourself in front of your partner can seem scary at first. Waking up without any make up on, and your hair a mess? What about him seeing you when you’re sick?runny nose, bloodshot eyes and all. It’s something you want to avoid as long as you can. But you shouldn’t feel that way. When you’re in love, even the worst illness is a beautiful experience because it’s worth it. Your partner helping you through a messy episode or kissing you with morning breath is a major step towards your future, and it shows how much he truly loves you.
起初似乎有些怯于在喜欢的人面前做真正的自己。早晨醒来妆容不整，头发也是一团乱？要是他在你生病的时候看见你，看见你堵塞的鼻子，充血的眼睛，以及其他一切不太好的状况你会怎么样呢?那些可都是你尽量在回避的事情呀。但是你不应该那样认为。当你在恋爱的时候，即使是再糟的病都会是最美的经历，因为那是最值得的。你的另一半陪你度过最糟的时间或是给你个早安吻都是你未来路上最重要的一部分，同时也表现出他是有多爱你。
5. True love comes naturally.
真爱是自然的到来
Do you have doubts about your partner? Are you not sure they’re right for you? If you’re asking yourself too many questions about your partner, your relationship, and your future together, then you’re probably not in love. When you’re truly in love, you don’t question anything. It feels natural to be with your partner, and you know you can work through anything to achieve that future you’re dreaming of.
你是不是对你的另一边还有疑虑?你是否还不确定他是不是你的真命天子？要是对你的另一半，你们之间的关系，你们的未来有太多的疑问，也许你们之间不是真的相爱。当你真正爱上一个人的时候，你是不会有任何质疑的。和你的另一半在一起你会觉得一切似乎本来就是那样的，你会明白只要通过努力，你们想要的任何东西都可以得到。
6. To get love, you must give love.
想要收获爱，你必须得付出爱
You can’t be in a loving relationship if you hold back. You can’t use love as a bargaining chip. Don’t tell your partner you love him only when he does something good around the house. Don’t give him the cold shoulder if he makes a mistake. You have to love him all the time, regardless of his words or actions, because true love is unconditional. If you give your partner this much love, you’ll get it?and more!?in return.
在真爱面前，如果你退缩了就不能得到爱。你不能把爱当成是一种交易。你不能对你的另一半说，只有当他对这个家有利的时候你才爱他。要是他做了件错事也不要冷冰冷的对他。你得一直爱他，爱他的一言一行，因为真爱不需要条件。要是你给你的另一半足够多的爱，同样的你也会得到更多的爱。
7. True love lasts.
真爱永恒
Think back to those casual relationships where your significant other wiping his nose on your bath towel was enough to end it. Those relationships are immature, and whatever you thought you experienced wasn’t love. When you’re truly in love, problems like this are just small bumps in the road. No problem seems insurmountable.
回想一下你们之间的关系，要是你的另一半用你的浴巾擦鼻涕就可能让你们的关系破裂。这样的关系是不成熟的，不管你认为你们经历过了什么，那都不是真爱。遇上真爱的时候，这些问题就只是你们爱情之路上的小石块。似乎没有问题是不可逾越的 。
8. True love is committed.
真爱是有奉献
It’s human nature to be attracted to other people, to allow your head to be turned by an attractive passerby. Don’t let this make you feel guilty. As long as you’re committed to your partner, your relationship is fine. When you’re truly in love, you don’t want to be with anyone else. You can’t imagine spending your time without your sweetheart.
互相吸引是人类的一大特性，允许自己被人迷恋。不要为此而觉得愧疚。只要你为你的另一半奉献，你们的关系就会变得良好。当你遇上真爱时，就不要再想着另外的人。你完全无法想象那种与一个自己不爱的人共度一生的日子。
9. YOU are the love of your life.
热爱自己的生活
Don’t forget that you need to love yourself. Self love is important, but it’s not something you should achieve and then throw away once you’re with your partner. You must stay in love with yourself for your entire life. If you start to dislike yourself or what you’re doing, you need to change just enough to stay on track, to stay true to yourself, and to stay in love with yourself.
不要忘记自己爱自己。自己爱自己是很重要的，但是这并不是你应该做到的，一旦你和你的另一半在一起的时候就把对其置之不理。你一辈子都得爱你自己。要是你开始不喜欢你自己，不喜欢自己的所作所为，你就得将自己调整到原来的状态，忠于自己，爱你自己。
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