晚安心语：那些没跟爱情一起长大的女孩子，后来都会被婚姻淘汰

伤害你的不是对方的绝情，而是你心存幻想的坚持。

What hurts you is not the desperation of the other person, but the perseverance of your fantasy.

谁不是在崩溃边缘还强撑着笑脸，过好自己的生活吧，别人的人生随他们去吧。

Who is not at the edge of collapse, but also strong smiling face, live your own life, others'lives go with them.

我的身体居住着两个灵魂。他们的寄主，白天是个钢筋铁骨的巨人，晚上是个被窝里流泪的废物。

My body contains two souls. Their host is a steel giant in the daytime and a tearful waste in the bedding at night.

那些没跟爱情一起长大的女孩子，后来都会被婚姻淘汰。

Those girls who did not grow up with love will be eliminated by marriage.

王者刚打上黄金，便不敢再打排位，你怕输了掉回白银，同时你也失去了变成黄金III的机会。正如我遇见了你，却不敢越过朋友，害怕失去你的同时，也无法真正拥有你。

Wangzhe just hit gold, they dare not rank again, you are afraid to lose back to silver, at the same time you also lost the chance to become gold III. Just as I met you, but dared not cross friends, afraid to lose you, but also unable to really own you.

终有一天，家里的洗衣机混杂着我的衬衫和你的睡衣，你会吃着我煮糊的早餐对我发脾气。我的刮胡刀和你的化妆品被狗狗折腾的不知踪迹，我们也忘记了当初年少的豪言壮语，只是，夜里想先睡去，枕着我的手臂，清晨想先醒来，听着你的呼吸。

One day, the washing machine at home will mix my shirt with your pajamas, and you'll be mad at me for my cooked breakfast. My razor and your cosmetics have been torn away by dogs. We have also forgotten the bold words of our youth. We just want to go to sleep at night, pillow my arm, wake up in the morning and listen to your breathing.

成年人之间，我一旦不信任你，你后续再做多少补救，我都认为你仍然在玩套路。

Among adults, once I don't trust you, how many remedies do you follow, I think you are still playing the routine.

如果可以，我只想做一株遗世的梅花，守着寂寞的年华，在老去的渡口，和某个归人，一起静看日落烟霞。

If I can, I just want to be a dead plum blossom, watching the sunset and smoke together at the old ferry.

记性太好，有时候是一种负担。容易忘记往事的人，是幸福的。

Memory is too good, sometimes a burden. Those who easily forget the past are happy.