俗话说：“日久见人心。”
As the saying goes, 'See the heart of the people over time.'
当学会计较后，慢慢也会懂得如何判断一段关系靠不靠谱。
After studying accounting, I will gradually understand how to judge whether a relationship is reliable.
曾经看到过一个故事，在欧洲，有一位刚毕业的留学生想要在当地求职。
I once saw a story about a newly graduated international student in Europe who wanted to find a job in the local area.
这位留学生各方面都很优秀，但求职时却处处受阻。
The international student is excellent in all aspects, but he is hindered in applying for a job.
他非常生气，在经历了多次失败后，怒气冲冲地冲到一个跨国公司人事部门质问人事经理：“我本地的同学学业成绩还没我的优秀，都被你们早早录用了，难道我是留学生，你们就为此不录用我吗？”
He was very angry. After many failures, he angrily rushed to the personnel department of a multinational company and questioned the personnel manager: 'My local classmates' academic achievements are not as good as mine. They were all hired by you early. Am I an international student? Why don't you hire me for this?'
人事经理认真地回答：“我们对你的学业情况非常了解，我们确实需要像你一样优秀的人员派驻到相关地区，但你四年求学当中，有过两次乘坐地铁逃票的记录，所以我们不能录用你！”
The HR manager replied earnestly, 'We know your academic situation very well. We really need excellent personnel like you to be stationed in relevant areas, but you have twice escaped by subway during your four years of study, so we can't hire you!'
学生更加震惊：“就为了这点小事？”
The student was more shocked: 'Just for this little thing?'
人事经理眉头一皱：“这不是小事，你发现规则当中的漏洞后，恶意使用规则。虽然你只是被发现了两次没有买票，但我敢说，你肯定有几十次的逃票经历！”
The HR manager frowned: 'This is not a trivial matter. After you found the loophole in the rules, you maliciously used the rules. Although you have only been found two times without buying tickets, I dare say that you must have experienced dozens of ticket evasion!'
“我们为了降低派出机构的成本，提高效率，尽量不设监督人员，如果你钻我们的管理漏洞，那是没办法防止的，所以，我们对人员的诚信问题是放在第一位的。”
'In order to reduce the cost of the dispatched office and improve efficiency, we try not to set up supervisors. If you drill into our management loopholes, it is impossible to prevent. Therefore, we put the integrity of personnel first.'
一个人靠不靠谱，藏在细节中。自爱的基础是自尊，不自重的人，谈不上自爱。
A person is unreliable, hidden in details. Self-love is based on self-respect. People who don't have self-respect can't talk about self-love.
而计较，更能看清一些人，明白一些事。
In comparison, we can better see some people and understand some things.
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