人生中的四个伴侣

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　　人生中的四个伴侣
　　we all have 4 wives in our lives
　　在我们的一生中我们都有四个伴侣。
　　a. The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish [8] in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.
　　a. 第四个伴侣是我们的身体。无论我们花费多少时间和精力使它好看，在我们死亡时它会远离我们而去。
　　b. Our 3rd wife ? Our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.
　　b. 我们的第三个伴侣？我们的财产，身份和财富。当我们死去时，它们会走向他人。
　　c. The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.
　　c. 第二个伴侣是我们的家人和朋友。无论他们在我们生前和我们的关系多么的亲密，他们最多能够送我们到坟墓而已。
　　d. The 1st wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material, wealth and sensual pleasure.
　　d.第一个伴侣实际上是我们的灵魂，在我们追求物质、财富和声色口腹之乐时常常将它抛之脑后。
　　 It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go. Perhaps it's a good idea to cultivate and strengthen it now rather than to wait until we're on our deathbed ，it is much better to regret deeply didn't treat kindly it.
　　 它是唯一和我们形影不离的东西。也许从现在就开始塑造并强壮我们的灵魂要比等到我们临终之时，悔恨没有善待它要好得多。