一、群处守嘴，独处守心。修己以清心为要，涉世以慎言为先。谨记！
Keep one's mouth shut, keep one's heart shut. To cultivate oneself is to purify one's mind, and to deal with the world is to speak carefully. Remember!
二、人生的大智慧，不过六个字：拿得起，放得下。前者决定你能活得多轻松，后者决定你能走多远。
The great wisdom of life, but six words: affordable, put down. The former decides how easy you can live, and the latter decides how far you can go.
三、如果你是对的，你没必要发脾气；如果你是错的，你没资格去发脾气。——这才是真正的智慧
If you are right, you don't need to lose your temper; if you are wrong, you are not entitled to lose your temper. —— That's the real wisdom.
四、合适的人生位置，既不靠近钱，也不靠近权，而是靠近灵魂；真正的幸福，既不是富贵，也不是凡事都对，而是问心无愧。
The right place in life is neither near money nor power, but near soul; true happiness is neither wealth nor everything is right, but a clear conscience.
五、被人理解是幸运的，但不被理解不一定不幸。一个把自己的价值完全寄托于他人的理解上面的人往往并无价值。
Being understood is lucky, but not being understood is not necessarily unfortunate. A person who places his value entirely on the understanding of others often has no value.
六、人性有一个弱点，你越在意什么，什么就越折磨你。当你不再畏手畏脚，当你鼓起勇气，下定决心忠于自己，每一天都将是最好的状态。
There is a weakness in human nature. The more you care about it, the more it tortures you. When you stop being afraid of your hands and feet, when you summon up courage and make up your mind to be loyal to yourself, every day will be the best state.
七、与其埋怨世界，不如改变自己。管好自己的心，做好自己的事，这比什么都强。
Instead of complaining about the world, change yourself. It's better to take care of your heart and do your own thing than anything else.
八、人生只售单程票，过去的就过去了，不要频频回首，在哪里存在，就在哪里绽放。
Life only sells one-way tickets, the past is gone, do not look back frequently, where exists, where blossoms.
九、记住三句话：知人不必言尽，言尽则无友。责人不必苛尽，苛尽则众远。敬人不必卑尽，卑尽则少骨。
Remember three sentences: Knowledgeable people don't have to say everything, but they have no friends. Blame people need not be harsh, harsh is far away. Respect for others does not have to be humble, humble is less bones.
十、活着一天，就是有福气，就该珍惜。当我哭泣我没有鞋子穿的时候，我发现有人却没有脚。
To live a day is to be blessed and cherished. When I cried that I had no shoes on, I found that some people had no feet.
十一、人生的每个抉择都像是一个赌局，输赢都是自己的。不同的是赌注的大小，选择了就没有反悔的机会。
Every decision in life is like a gambling game. Win or lose is your own. The difference is the size of the bet, there is no chance to repent when you choose.
十二、轻财足以聚人，律己足以服人，量宽足以得人，身先足以率人。——曾国藩
Light wealth is enough to gather people, self-discipline is enough to convince people, generosity is enough to get people, and leadership is enough. —— Zeng Guofan
十三、无论是对事还是对人，我们只需要做好自己的本分，不与过多人建立亲密的关系，也不要因为关系亲密便掏心掏肺，切莫交浅言深，应适合而止。
Whether it's for the right thing or for the right person, we just need to do our part well, not to establish intimate relationship with too many people, and do not pull out our hearts and hearts because of intimacy. Never say anything in a simple way, it should be suitable.
十四、自由不是让你想做什么就做什么，自由是你不想做什么，就可以不做什么。
Freedom is not what you want to do. Freedom is what you don't want to do, you can do nothing.
十五、人越是怕丢人，就越在乎别人的看法。越在乎别人的看法，就越会忽略自己的感受。越忽略自己的感受，就越像木偶一样拼命活给别人看。最后，一步步将真实的自我囚禁在了深深的黑暗里。
The more people fear humiliation, the more they care about what others think. The more you care about other people's opinions, the more you ignore your feelings. The more you ignore your feelings, the more you will live like a puppet to others. Finally, step by step, the true self is imprisoned in deep darkness.
十六、要得到你想要的某件东西，最可靠的办法是让你自己配得上它。——查理·芒格
The surest way to get something you want is to make yourself worthy of it. —— Charlie Munger
十七、未曾清贫难做人，不经打击永天真。成熟，不过是善于隐藏；沧桑，不过是无泪有伤。
Never be poor, never be naive. Mature, but good at hiding; vicissitudes, but no tears hurt.
十八、我们这一生，路要自己走，苦要自己吃，任何人无法给予全部依赖，以为走不过去的路，跨过去后回头看看，也不过如此。
In our lifetime, we have to go our own way and eat our own way. No one can rely on it completely. We think that we can't go through the road. We can look back after the past, but it's just the same.
十九、有些事放开就好，看开就好，不必计较太多。心宽，就是对自己最好的礼物。
Some things are just as good as being open, so you don't have to worry too much about them. Being broad-minded is the best gift for yourself.
二十、别等不该等的人，别伤不该伤的心。有些人，注定是生命中的过客；有些事，常常让我们很无奈。与其伤心流泪，不如从容面对。
Don't wait for the wrong person, don't hurt the wrong heart. Some people are doomed to be passers-by in life; some things often make us feel helpless. It's better to face it calmly than to cry.
二十一、爱情友情都一样，等你足够强大，相应的圈子会主动来吸纳你，无需自作悲悯，更无须刻意讨好，你需要的是自我丰盈与精彩。
Love and friendship are the same, when you are strong enough, the corresponding circle will take the initiative to absorb you, without self-pity, not to deliberately please, you need to be self-enrichment and brilliance.
二十二、坚持自己所选择的，相信自己所坚持的，才是属于你自己的正确道路。别人怎么看你并不重要，重要的是你要做你自己，去做自己认为正确的事。
Sticking to what you choose and believing what you insist on is the right way to belong to you. It doesn't matter what other people think of you. The important thing is to be yourself and do what you think is right.
二十三、你选择什么，就收获什么。所有结局，在最开始就埋下了伏笔。成为想成为的人，不要只是说说而已。
You can harvest whatever you choose. All the endings, in the beginning laid the foreshadows. Be the person you want to be, don't just talk about it.
二十四、你给自己一个高度，世界总会还你一个尺度。无论生活怎样，都不要忘记微笑，愿你成为自己的太阳，无需凭借谁的光。
If you give yourself a height, the world will always give you a yardstick. No matter what your life is like, don't forget to smile. Wish you become your own sun, no need to rely on anyone's light.
二十五、从来没有无缘无故的好和坏，也没有莫名其妙的成与败，有的只是我们每个人对当下的把握和努力。
Never good or bad for no reason, nor inexplicable success or failure, there is only the grasp and efforts of each of us at the moment.
二十六、只要内心不乱，外界就很难改变你什么。不要艳羡他人，不要输掉自己。
It's hard for the outside world to change anything as long as there's no chaos in your heart. Don't envy others, don't lose yourself.
二十七、其实所有纠结做选择的人心里早就有了答案，咨询只是想得到内心所倾向的选择。最终的所谓命运，还是自己一步步走出来的。——东野圭吾
In fact, all those who struggle to make choices already have answers in their hearts. Consulting just wants to get the choices they are inclined to make. The ultimate so-called fate, or step by step out of their own. —— Kuiwu Dongno
二十八、放纵自己的欲望是最大的祸害；谈论别人的隐私是最大的罪恶；不知自己过失是最大的病痛。
To indulge one's desires is the greatest evil; to talk about the privacy of others is the greatest evil; to know one's fault is the greatest pain.
二十九、把一切平凡的事做好即不平凡，把一切简单的事做好即不简单。
To do all the ordinary things well is extraordinary, and to do all the simple things well is not simple.
三十、每一次选择必须是一次超越，否则就不要选择；每一次放弃必须是一次升华，否则就不要放弃。Every choice must be a transcendence, otherwise do not choose; every give up must be a sublimation, otherwise do not give up.
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