Guys, Things To Do To Find The Right Girl

 

 

How to find the right girl…. 

My dear darling Elena,I missing you very much.Kiss you lovely

 

Everybody talks about how girls are always searching or waiting for Mr Right but they often forget that a lot of men are longing for that special somebody too.

Finding that special somebody has become a hard thing for some people in this world that we live; some guys have just had one bad experience after the other and they are left wondering if they will ever find that lady that is just perfect for them.

Romantic and relationship let-downs happen to a lot of men through no fault of theirs but there are a chunk of men who are doing the wrong things and expecting best results. Guys, there may be a whole of things you’re doing that are repelling instead of attracting “Miss Right”. 

Here are some of the things you may need to stop doing to find girl of your dreams:

Stop Lying

Lying is a bad habit and it’s not a trait that any lovely and sensible girl would want in man that she wants to be in a relationship. So if you have been thinking that lying is dating skill, it is not. It has simply limited your relationship opportunities.

Don’t believe stories that women like to be lied; not the type of ladies that could the kind of love and joy into your life. Making a habit of lying to ladies will only attract the ones who lie too or who are confused.

 

If you want the right lady in your life, stop lying and start living your truth.

Start Listening

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You are entitled to your desires about how you want the woman of your dreams to look but if you actually want to find that complete package of in and out beauty you’re looking for, then add some listening to your looking.

There are a lot of beautiful girls out there but not all of them are good for you. If train yourself to take more time to have conversations and listen more, you will find the one that you make a good thing with.

If you leave it all to looks and a good time, then don’t complain when it ends just as it starts. If you want something more, you have to go deeper.

Stop Boasting

 

Boasting will only get you hooked up with fake girls who don’t know  themselves or want to flatter you so that they can use you.

Overcome those fears of your inadequacy and be yourself so that you can give yourself the chance someone who will truly appreciate you for who you are.

Start Being Nice 

All that rude boy stuff is only attractive to confused women or teenage girls. Smart, beautiful, happy and lovely ladies (the kind that you really desire) know that real men are kind and polite gentlemen.

Your harsh, abrasive and inconsiderate fa?ade is barrier to finding true love so let it go and find your kind, gentlemanly self. Do that and you’re on your way to love and happiness.

Stop Looking For An Easy Lay

Looking for ladies you don’t have to woo or get to know before they fall into your arms is not smart move but a confused and dangerous move. If you’re looking for cheap love, it will most likely not be good love; cheap usually means low quality.

 

 

Now this is not about chasing some girl who is playing hard-to-get, it is about learning that you have to put effort into achieving the kind of life you desire. To find that love of a life time,

you should be ready to the work putting yourself out there to find love.

Remember, nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Start being wise

Be a wise man. Don’t allow yourself to be played by looks or a show of niceness. Don’t let sex or money cloud your judgement.

Do the due diligence of protecting your heart by weighing and judging the actions and words of the women you meet so you don’t fall into the wrong hands.

Beware of women who keep asking (for money, attention, romance, etc) but are not ready to bring anything to the table. Love is a mutual service and reciprocal giving; if you are expected to do it all, then it’s not love.

 

You need to also be aware that a woman who wants to do everything for you without you giving in return is not love. She may an insecure person who may later turn on you or someone who is trying to trap you.

Be wise, and shrewd, let your heart and head guide you.

6 Things You Can Do To Be Happier

Happiness is a goal we always have in front of us no matter how happy we are or how happy we may have been. This is simply because there is always room for more improvement in our lives.

As we leave the last year behind and enter into this year, we should begin to make those improvements early so that we can enjoy more happiness in our lives.

These six habits, if cultivated, will help us enjoy more happiness in our lives:

Stop the comparison

Many people have great lives with a lot of things going for them but they are still struggling to find joy and happiness because they are constantly comparing themselves to others.

Everyone is on a unique and individual journey in life; when we compare ourselves with others, we rob ourselves of the opportunity to enjoy our gifts, our triumphs, our progress and blessing.

Stop looking at what others have and start enjoying what you have. You will be surprised at how your perspective will change  and how much peace and joy you will have.

 

 

Forgive

Learn to forgive and constantly practicing it is a great way to maintain one’s equilibrium and open up your capacity for happiness.

Piling up of lists of offences is bad way to live life; you simply have to learn to develop a system for purging out the pain of disappointments and offences because they are a constant part.

If you do not cultivate your outlet of offences and allow the pain of wrongs and mistakes to build up, then happiness will elude you.

As you forgive others, it is important that you forgive yourself and do it quickly too

Stop complaining

 

What you say has a way of colouring your perspective and your perspective affects your peace and your level of happiness.

Stop whining, talk about your hopes, talk about the goodness you’ve enjoyed, talk about your plans and your good memories. As you do this you will see your emotions rise from the darkness of bitterness and hopelessness into the light of optimism and happiness.

While it is accepted that life comes with challenges and you can wish them away just because you don’t want to complain, you must know that you can still talk about your challenges and the reality on ground in an optimistic way that doesn’t make you despair.

Be Kind

 

 

As you work towards a happier existence, learn to be kind to yourself and others because it helps to boost your energy and happiness.

Doing good makes you feel good. Give more genuine compliments, offer help whenever you can, be there for someone in need, take time to visit loved ones and learn to share your blessing with others. You will see your happiness rising.

Stop being proud

Pride is a big barrier to happiness and progress. It prevents people from asking from help when they should, or telling the truth about the situation or saying sorry to those they’ve wrong among other things.

Pull the wall of pride down in your life, cultivate an attitude of humility and watch opportunities open up for you in your relationships and every other area of your life.

Pride has robbed of too much already, put an end to it now.

Be grateful

 

 

It may be unexplainable but gratitude increases our joy and our blessings! Being thankful for what we have makes us treat them better and in tending those blessings, we create room to receive more.

Gratitude shines forth in our relationships, our work, our expectations and it is a magnet for joy because when we have a perspective that sees goodness, it helps us expect more good. When you’re expecting good, you can’t be pessimistic or depressed.

Let this year be a year of gratitude and watch your joy soar!