来都说：一个男孩成长为男人需要经过多少改变？
A boy tells you he loves you. A man tells you he loves you and backs it up with his actions.
男孩会说我爱你。男人会说我爱你然后付诸行动。
A boy makes you feel like you’re not good enough. A man makes you want to be a better person because you have so much genuine respect for him.
男孩让你感到你不够好。男人让你想成为一个更好的人，因为你真的尊重他。
A boy is possessive. A man is protective.
男孩占有欲强。男人懂得保护。
A boy makes you feel like you need to downplay your accomplishments so as not to embarrass him. A man is not threatened by your success, but proud of it, and inspired by it.
男孩会因为你的成就而自惭形秽。男人则会因为你的成就而自豪并且受到振奋。
A boy is concerned with his own pleasure. A man cannot enjoy himself unless he knows you are too.
男孩更关心自己的愉悦。男人只有在你也快乐时才感到真正快乐。
A boy underestimates you. A man is not afraid to challenge you, because he knows what you’re capable of.
男孩会看轻你。男人则相信你的能力并且给你更高的目标。
A boy will be interested in your life for as long as he can get something out of it. A man will be interested in your life because he cares about you and wants to understand you more deeply as a person.
男孩会关心你的生活直到获得他想要的。男人会关心你的生活因为在乎你并且想更加了解你。
A boy is threatened by the idea of feminism, convinced that being feminist classifies you as angry, aggressive, and man-hating. A man understands that feminism is simply the belief that men and women are equal.
男孩眼中的女权主义者是对男性充满愤怒的示威者。男人眼中的女权主义者是相信男女平等的普通人。
A boy thinks he must provide for you. A man knows that a relationship means the two of you are providing equally for each other.
男孩认为他在为你付出。男人认为一段关系是双方都在付出。
A boy bottles everything up, and lashes out because of anger or other pent-up emotions. A man admits when he needs you and when he needs to talk, even if it makes him uncomfortable.
男孩会因为不爽而酗酒或使用暴力来发泄。男人会承认需要你，需要找人倾诉，即使这会让他不舒服。
A boy is always thinking of whether or not he could do better. A man knows when he has something good right in front of him and never takes it for granted.
男孩会总想着自己能不能够做得更好。男人则有着明确的目标而且为此努力。
A boy makes excuses. A man admits when he’s screwed up, and always does everything he can to fix it.
男孩会找借口。男人会承认错误然后补救。
A boy is either needy or impossible to get hold of. A man always makes time for you, while also making sure he has a life outside your relationship.
男孩有需要时会联系你，或者你根本找不到他。男人会确保陪伴你的时间，但感情之外，他也一定有自己的生活。
A boy is only interested in beauty. A man appreciates your physical beauty, but is most attracted to your personality.
男孩只看外貌。男人看外貌更看你的性格。
A boy thinks he already knows everything. A man walks around with the mindset that there is always something new to learn from everyone he encounters.
男孩认为自己无所不能。男人则认为自己要脚踏实地，很多事情都还需要虚心学习。
A boy focuses on what he wants now, now, now. A man lives in the now but is always planning for the future.
男孩只看手上的，现在的，眼前的。男人生活在此刻但知道应该为未来作计划。
A boy will spend time with the friends of yours – if he likes them. A man will spend time with your friends regardless of his feelings towards them, because if they’re important to you, they’re important to him.
男孩的爱屋及乌是他也喜欢乌。男人的爱屋及乌是因为你喜欢乌。
A boy makes rash decisions based on his immediate desires. A man understands the concept of being rational and having priorities.
男孩的决定是因为眼前的需要。男人知道什么是理性和轻重缓急。
A boy needs you because of his fragile self-esteem. A man needs you because he believes his life is better with you in it.
男孩需要你是因为脆弱的自尊。男人需要你是因为你让他的生活更加美好。
A boy is concerned with how you look to his friends. A man does not care about what other people think, as long as you’re happy together.
男孩会担心他朋友怎么看你。男人则只要你开心就好。
A boy is ready to do anything to get want he wants. A man is ready to love without hesitation.
男孩为欲毫不犹豫。男人为爱毫不迟疑。
内容编译自：http://thoughtcatalog.com/sophie-wrenfield/2016/01/the-difference-between-dating-a-boy-and-dating-a-man/
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