任何好的习惯,都需要从小养成,并且需要有良好的品格做基础。只有致力于品格的培养,孩子成长的大树,才能坚固长久,经得起风雨考验。
有一本讲述孩子品格习惯养成的书备受海外学校推崇,叫做《The 7 Habits of Happy Kids》快乐孩子的7个习惯。国外很多学校根据这本书的内容,给学生们画了一个“7个习惯树 / The 7 Habits Tree ”-的海报,作为孩子们品格教育的参照纲领。
这些海报被贴在教室里和家里,时时刻刻提醒孩子们注意自己的想法和言行。
今天,我们就一起来学习如何培养孩子的良好品格。
从树根开始从下往上,这7个习惯像一棵树一样逐渐长成。它们分别是:
1. Be proactive
积极主动
2. Begin with the end in mind
有目标
3. Put first things first
做事分主次
4. Think win-win
从双赢的角度出发
5. Seek first to understand, then to be understood
先理解别人,再求被人理解
6. Synergize
协同合作
7. Sharpen the saw
磨刀不误砍柴工
从这张图上我们可以看出,前3个习惯是根基,只有做到这些,孩子才能发展出其他的良好品格。孩子做事有目标、有积极性之后,才能探讨怎么做,与他人之间的关系,以及如何提高做事效率。
Be Proactive(积极主动)
Be proactive - you're in charge
积极主动,我的人生我负责
I am a responsible person. I take initiative.
I choose my actions, attitudes and moods.
I do not blame others for my wrong actions.
I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.
对自己负责,做事积极主动。
管理自己的行为、态度和情绪。
做了错事不怪别人。
不用别人说我也会去做正确的事情,哪怕没有人在看。
Begin with the End in Mind(有目标)
Have a plan
有目标,有计划
I plan ahead and set goals.
I do things that have meaning and make a difference.
I am an important part of my classroom and contribute to my school's mission and vision.
I look ways to be a good citizen.
做事前我会定计划和目标。
做有意义和带来积极影响的事。
我是班级里的重要一员,为学校事务做贡献。
我希望成为一个好公民。
Put First Things First(做事分主次)
Put first things first - Work first, then play
做事分主次,先工作,后娱乐
I spend my time on things that are most important.
This means I say no to things I know I should not do.
I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan.
I am disciplined and organized.
在重要的事情上花时间。
不该做的事,我勇于说不。
制定优先级,做日程表,执行我的计划。
对自己有纪律,做事井井有条。
Think Win-win(从共赢的角度出发)
Think win-win - Everyone can win
从互赢角度考虑问题,利己利人
I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want.
I make deposits in others' Emotional Bank Accounts.
When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.
勇于争取自己想要的,但是我同时也会考虑别人的需求。
在别人的情感银行账号里放下我的存款。
有矛盾的时候,我寻求能平衡彼此需求的解决方案。
Seek first to understand then to be understood(先去理解别人 再求被人理解)
Seek first to understand, then to be understood
先去理解别人,再求被人理解。
I listen to other people's ideas and feelings.
I try to see things from their viewpoints.
I listen to others without interrupting.
I am confident in voicing my ideas.
I look people in the eyes when talking.
仔细聆听别人的主意和情感。
努力从他人角度去理解问题。
听别人说话的时候我不插嘴、不打扰。
很有信心说出我自己的主意。
别人说话的时候,我直视他的眼睛。
Synergize(协同合作)
Synergize - Together is better
协同-合作会更好
I value other people's strengths and learn from them.
I get along well with others, even people who are different than me.
I work well in groups. I seek out other people's ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming withothers we can create better solutions than anyone of us can alone.
I am humble.
珍重别人的优点,向他们学习。
和大家很好相处,即使他们和我很不一样。
能有效地进行团队合作,因为我知道合作比单打独斗能带来更好的解决方案。
保持谦虚的精神。
Sharpen the Saw(磨刀不误砍柴工)
Sharpen the saw-Balance feels best
磨刀不误砍柴工,寻求健康和平衡
I take care of my body eating right, exercising and getting sleep.
I spend time with family and friends.
I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school.
I find meaningful ways to help others.
注意饮食、锻炼和睡眠。
花时间和家人、朋友在一起。
在各种地方都能以各种方式学到很多东西-学习的地方可不止于学校。
用有意义的方式去帮助别人。
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