How do we know/ if people genuinely like us/ for who we are? No one wants to feel like they've been fooled/ into thinking a relationship/ is more than it actually is. What makes it worse/ is when people send us mixed signal intentionally/ to make us fall deeper in love/ when in reality, they aren't ready to be with us. But why would they do so? Well, it could be because they like it/ when they know someone is head-over- heels for them. And even though they do not feel the same way about them, they would still string them along/ because it strokes their ego, and they don't want to lost that admiration.
Let's see some of the signs/ that you may be being led on/ or perhaps you are doing the leading /and want to stop that.
ONE, THEY MIGHT SAY "I LOVE YOU" TOO SOON
第一，TA可能很快也会说“我爱你”
Everyone knows that "love at first sight" / is a real thing. If someone tells you/ they love you/ within 5 minutes of meeting you, do you think they are telling the truth? Think about the situation/ rationally. How much do they know about us in 5 minutes? What is it about us/ that they love?
TWO, IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT THEM
第二，话题总是谈TA自己
People who lead us on/ are likely to talk only about themselves. This is because/ at the end of the day, people who engage in this behavior/ are pretty self-centered. They don't care/ about how their self-serving behavior/ might hurt others. In fact, they're probably leading you on/ just so /that they can feel fulfilled/ from your love. Take note/ of how your conversations pan out, and see how often your partner includes you/ in this discussion.
THREE, THEY'RE NOT SURE/ WHAT TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP THEY WANT
第三，TA不确定TA想要什么样的关系
At a certain point/ of a relationship, it's usually a good idea/ to figure out/ what each partners goals are. Do you both want sth casual or sth serious? Maybe you two/ just want to be friends. But when you find someone/ who can never seem to decide/ what they want, it might be a sign / they're leading you on. If someone/ is interested in a casual relationship, they should come out/ and say ASAP. Letting the other people believe otherwise/ is manipulative/ and /insensitive.
FOUR, THEY ARE NICE/ BUT IT SEEMS FAKE
第四，TA很好,但看起来很假
When someone leads you on/ in a relationship, their kindness may come and go. In general, when someone is nice to you/ it's sometimes pretty hard to tell/ if they're being genuine/ or not. This is another big sign/ of someone who is leading you on. They are only nice/ when it's convenient for them.
FIVE, THEY'RE GHOSTING YOU
第五，TA会玩消失
Ghosting/ is when people refuse to answer your texts/ or return your calls. Ghosting/ can be very confusing, especially in a relationship. This is a pretty big sign/ that someone is leading you on. Even they're busy, if someone really cares about you, they'll take a few seconds/ and reply to your text/ to let you know/ that they are.
SIX,THEY PLAY THE VICTIM
第六，TA总扮演受害者
Manipulative people/ love to play the victim, before you know it, they've turned the tables on you, and they make it seem/ like they're the one/ who's been abused in a relationship. This is a classical behavior/ of someone who's trying to play with your mind, which is exactly/ what leading people on/ is all about. They may play the victim/ when something doesn't go their way, or even when you accuse them /of leading you on. Recognize if you are the one/ usually compromising / and making sacrifices. Remember to appreciate your self-worth.
THEY MIGHT/ BE JUST CONFUSED
At the end of the day, people might be leading you on/ without fully realizing what they are doing. Not everyone knows what they want / from a relationship/ right from the beginning, and they might be torn between two worlds. On the one hand, they might want a serious relationship with you, but there might also/ be an inner voice/ warning them against it. They might/ just be afraid /of getting hurts, this certainly doesn't excuse the behavior/ but it does potentially explain it.
Pharses
how your conversations pan out
你的谈话结果如何
someone is head-over- heels for 非常喜欢
at the end of the day 归根结底
self-serving behavior自私行为
manipulative and insensitive善于操纵麻木不仁的
strokes their ego打击他们的自我
being led on=doing the leading 被利用
play with your mind 玩弄感情
appreciate your self-worth欣赏你的自我价值
turn the tables 扭转局面
be torn between two worlds左右为难
excuse the behavior原谅这种行为
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