快节奏的都市生活中，每个人每天都要做无数的选择，大大小小，不计其数。我们焦虑，因为每个选择都必然伴随着成本；我们恐惧，因为每个十字路口都川流不息，危机四伏。好的境况各有各的幸福快乐，而坏的境况都有一些相似之处。反推之，尽管成功的经验不可复制，然而，要想避免坏的选择，总有一些可以借鉴的金科玉律。
Mr. B在此回顾了当年“心灵鸡汤”还不似如今这样泼得满大街都是时，Facebook产品设计总监Julie Zhuo发布的十则心得，仍觉开卷有益。
Julie ZhuoProduct Design Director @ Facebook“这是我的个人清单，也许会轻微地受到我所做的事情、我工作的地方、与我身边那么多有才华之人的影响。我不能说我每天都做到了这十件事，但它们是那些早上会问候我的小小的声音，是一天结束时会对我轻声耳语的醒言，是那些看似像蓝色的月亮一样不可能出现的令人心醉神迷的理想的朦胧轮廓。是志向。也是宣言。”
10.在做决定之前，一定要弄清楚事情的来龙去脉。
Always get the full story before making a decision.
9.在一些坏的事情发生之后，开掉某些人似乎是极其简单自然的事情，就像按一下开关按钮一样。但你要承担用人的风险。你也曾搞砸过许多事，你也做过错误的决定。但你会学习和成长，那么别人也一样。
It's incredibly easy to 'flip the switch' and start writing people off after a few bad experiences. Resist at all costs. You were bumbling once too. You made poor decisions. You learn and grow, and so does everybody else.
8.扫干净面包渣，擦净桌子，堵住该堵的缺口——即使这似乎是仆人应该做的事情，即使你做了也不会有人知道。去做这些事，为了产品，为了公司，为了这个你们共同创造的奇妙的、令人着迷的东西。
Sweep up the crumbs. Wipe the tables. Turn off the lights. Plug the holes that need plugging—even if it's menial, even if nobody will know you did it. Do it in service of the product, the company, and this wondrous, magical thing you are all building together.
7.要认识到你没法亲自做每一件事这个事实。闭上你的眼睛，退后一步，学会去信任。
Recognize you can't do everything. Close your eyes, fall backwards, and learn to trust.
6.显然，你还可以提高做事效率。怎么提高？在每天下班开车回家的路上去思索吧。
Clearly, there is a more efficient way to do the things you do. How? Ponder that on your daily drive home.
5.想办法搞清楚哪些人一直依赖着你，并且思考你怎样才能帮助他们学会自给自足。也许垄断了鲑鱼的供给你会感到自己很重要，但是如果整个村庄都学会了如何钓鱼，你才能有自由去做些别的事情。比如说学会如何种麦子，或者如何驯养那些可爱的小狼。
Figure out which people rely on you and how you can help them be self-sufficient. You may feel important having a monopoly on salmon provisions, but if the whole village learns how to fish, it'll free you up to do something else. Like figuring out how to grow wheat. Or how to domesticate those cute wolf-pups.
4.不要谈论无益于讨论的事情。你的声音没有悦耳到别人非听不可。
Don't say anything if it's not actually contributing to the discussion. Your voice is not so melodious that it absolutely must be heard.
3.让事情步入正轨比做出最好的决定更为重要，因为这样才能确保做出最好的决定。
Making the best decision is not as important as putting in the right processes to ensure that the best decisions get made.
2.慎重但不吝啬给予自己的感谢与鼓励，正如适当表达自己的观点一样。
Dole out thanks and encouragement like you dole out opinions.
1.最重要的是，永远永远不要干涉事情的发展。即使去玩手指或者眯着眼睛去看天上的云，也比因为那个愚蠢又孩子气的“自我”去妨碍事情的发展要好。
Above all, this: never, ever get in the way. It's better to twiddle your thumbs and squint up at the clouds than to obstruct progress for the sake of that stupid, childish thing called ego.
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