如何在自私和自虐之间寻一席之地？

不顾别人的感受是自私，太顾别人的感受是自虐。在自私与自虐之间寻一席之地 ，有选择的给予，力所能及地善良，同时也不辜负自己。

Being insensitive to others' feelings is selfish; Being too insensitive to others' feelings is self-abuse. Find a space between selfishness and self-abuse. Give selectively, be kind as you can, and live up to yourself.