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这个问题是萨古鲁与Shri Ram商学院（印度商业和经济领域最负盛名、历史最悠久的高等学府之一）大学生对话时，学生向萨古鲁提问的问题。对于这个问题，萨古鲁是如何回答的，请观看视频与阅读下面的文章。
'A relationship means it must be body-based there must be something biological involved. Biology is only one part of us. Even a human being says have a relationship, it could be a friend, it could be a brother, it could be a sister, it could be variety of relationships and also body based relationship. Now when you say young people you're talking about those people whose intelligence has been hijacked by hormones. It's not a question of right and wrong, it's not a question of morality, it is just a question of priority.'
“（人们认为）一段关系意味着一定是身体层面的，一定涉及生理。生理只是我们的一部分。人们谈到自己有一段关系时，可以是朋友关系，可以是兄弟关系，可以是姐妹关系，可以是各种各样的关系，也有肉体关系。现在，你说年轻人的时候，你是在说那些理智已经被荷尔蒙绑架的人。这并不是一个关于对错的问题，不是一个道德问题，它仅仅是一个人生主导的问题。”
Student: Sadhguru, nowadays we see a lot of young people are in relationships. So a public display of affection PDA is quite common and popular among the young generation and it's very normal for all of us, to you know, hug our friends or kiss our partners openly in front of others, but if we say a previous generation, they consider PDA as something vulgar. So it's very strange that how love offends someone. So my question is that whose the outlook do you support. Is it the young generation or your own generation?
学生：萨古鲁，如今我们看到一些年轻人在谈恋爱，因此公共场所秀亲密（PDA）在年轻一代中变得相当常见和流行，并且对我们所有人来说，也是非常正常的，你知道的，在别人面前拥抱朋友或亲吻伴侣。如果是老一辈的人们，他们会觉得这是很低俗的。那么，爱会触犯到其他人，这是很奇怪的。所以我的问题是你支持谁的观点呢？是年轻一代的还是你们那代人的呢？
Sadhguru: What makes you think you're younger than me? No no, I don't agree that you are younger than me. So there are many aspects to this question. You said today young people have relationships, unfortunately, you have come to a place where you think that a relationship means it must be body based there must be something biological involved. Biology is a part of our life, but the significance of becoming human compared to other creatures. They are complete biology. We are only part biology we have other dimensions to us. We have an intelligence. We have an emotion. We have a consciousness which is of another dimension.
Sadhguru（萨古鲁）：是什么让你觉得你比我年轻？不，不，我不认为你比我年轻。这个问题有很多层面。你说现在的年轻人之间有“关系”，不幸的是，你们到了一种境地，认为关系一定是肉体关系，一定涉及到生理。生理是我们生命的一部分。但是，和其它生物相比，成为人类的意义是其它生物是完全生物性的，而生物性只是我们的一部分，我们还有其它维度，我们有智慧，有情感，还有属于另一个维度的——意识。
Biology is only one part of us. If an earthworm says I have a relationship and it both of them tangle each other, I understand. If when a human being says I have a relationship, it could be a friend, it could be a brother, it could be a sister, it could be variety of relationships and also body based relationships.
生物性只是我们的一部分。如果一条蚯蚓说自己有一段关系，然后它们纠缠在一起，这我理解。如果一个人说自己有一段关系，它可以是朋友关系，可以是兄弟关系，可以是姐妹关系，可以是各种各样的关系，也有肉体关系。
So this thing about using the word relationship only with biological stuff is essentially because somewhere, unknowingly, unknowingly. Maybe because of internet, you got enslaved to America. It all started in United States relationship means it hast o be opposite sex or something sexual Why can't you withhold relationships of other kind? hello? Are we not capable? I'm asking. Can't we have very intimate profound relationships with people without fondling their bodies? I'm asking possible or no?
所以“关系”这个词变得只和生理挂钩，本质上是因为某些地方，无意中、无意中，也许因为网络，你们被美国奴役了。这都是从美国开始的，关系意味着一定是异性或者一些性方面的事情。难道你不能拥有其它类型的关系吗？嗯？我们难道没有能力，我在问，我们难道不能和其他人有亲密深入的关系但不热衷于他们的身体吗？我在问这可能还是不可能？
Biology is not the most prominent aspect of being human, it is there. It's not something that you can you know put it under the carpet. It is very much there, but it is not the dominant aspect of being human. With other creatures, it is so. With a human being, the most significant aspect of who we are is our intelligence, our emotion, our consciousness-these are big things.
生物性不是人类最主要的层面，它在那里。这不是什么你能掩盖起来的东西，它就在那儿。但它不是人类的主要方面，对于其它生物来说它是的。对于人类来说，我们的最显著的方面是我们的智慧和情感、我们的意识，这些才是主要的。
Body is just one part of it. I am not saying you must ignore the body. Body is there. Now when you say young people, you are talking about those people whose intelligence has been hijacked by hormones. When you were 10 years of age, you looked at people, everybody was fine, you're quite okay. You became 14,15, you looked at them every little bump on their body suddenly became a world by itself, yes or no? You have to wait for some more time, when the hormonal thing goes down ,then you look at people again, they're all looking normal. So it's not a question of right and wrong, it's not a question of morality, it is just a question of priority. What kind of priorities do you want to give? to your own bodily compulsions?
身体只是其中之一。我并不是在说，你必须忽视身体。身体就在那儿。当你说年轻人时，你说的是那些理智被荷尔蒙绑架的人。在你十岁的时候，你看着人们，每个人都很正常，你也相当好。你十四、五岁的时候，再看他们，突然地，身体间的每个小触碰就自成一个世界了。是不是？你得再等一段时间，当荷尔蒙这东西降下去，那时你再看人们，他们看起来又都很正常了。因此这不是一个关于对或错的问题，这并不是一个道德问题，这仅仅是一个什么是主导的问题。你想把什么当作最首要的？你身体的强迫性吗？
In Delhi just now when I was coming to your college, somebody in a Main Street was standing there and urinating. When he feels like if he does it. What's the problem? Hello? Any problem? no problem. because when you feel like it you do whatever you want and you think it's your right. He also thinks it is right when he feels like it he urinates on the street, what's wrong? Dogs are doing it, donkeys are doing it, cattle are doing it ,everybody is doing it! Being natural! This's the philosophy you're talking about.
刚才我来你们学校的路上，看到有个人在主道上站着小便，他想这么做，就这么做了，有什么问题？嗯？有问题吗？没问题。当你想的时候就做任何你想做的事，并且你认为这是你的权利，他也觉得那是对的。当他觉得想小便就在街上解决了，有什么错吗？狗这么做，驴这么做，牛这么做，每个人都这么做。做自己！顺其自然！这是你们背后的哲学。
I'm saying, there is a certain sanctity to relationships, especially body based relationships. If you don't maintain that sanctity, it'll become after sometime well vulgarity definitely, so somebody is seeing it before you that if you go like this tomorrow. it'll lead to something else. This does not mean being a moral prude. No. But if you don't maintain that sanctity you will regret that how relationships will become how much pain they can bring in your life later on. You will see so one this.
我要说的是，关系中有一种神圣性，尤其是以身体为基础的关系。如果你不保持这种圣洁，一段时间后一定会变得低俗。所以，前人已经发现了这点，如果你这么做，明天它会变成别的东西。这并不意味着做一个讲道德的正人君子。但是如果你不维持这种圣洁，你会后悔，过一段时间后这段关系会给你的生活带来多么巨大的痛苦。你会发现这一点。
You're talking about previous generation I don't belong to that, nor do I belong to your generation. I belong to the future generations, that's why I'm like this. The previous generation that you're talking about was a generation which came just post independence. You must understand their reality, they lived as an occupied nation, for a period of time some of them fought others slinked around. Whichever way their ideas of morality essentially was of their masters. It is British prudery that they carried within themselves their idea of being right is that they must be in - in a straightjacket all the time.
你说到老一辈，我不属于那一辈，我也不属于你们这一代，我属于未来的时代，这就是为什么我像这样。你说的那种老一辈，他们生活在印度刚获得独立的年代。你必须理解他们的生活现实，他们活在国家被占领的时期，他们中的有些人参战，有些人一生东躲西藏。不管是哪种，他们的道德观根本上深受占领国的影响，他们内在携带的是英国人的拘谨。他们对于“正确”的概念就是，他们必须一直穿着制服。
You don't have to go by that, nor do you have to do something stupid in reaction to that. You must conduct your life sensibly. You must conduct your life in such a way that this will work for you for your entire life in some sense. You do something wacky today and there may be a payment tomorrow. so why don't you think it through what is the best thing to do, how much of what to do, isn't it? How much of what should I do? how much of body? how much of intelligence? how much of emotion? how much of conscious? In your life you must decide which should dominate your life. Accordingly, you conducted it, fine. Somebody doesn't like it then he need not see it.
你们不必跟着他们那样，你们也不必用什么愚蠢的行为对此表示异议，你必须明智地过你的人生，你必须以这样一种方式生活：它对你的整个人生来说都是可行的。你今天做了些古怪的事，明天你可能会为此付出代价。所以你为什么不想通最好做什么事情？要做到哪种程度，不是吗？我该做什么，到何种程度？身体占多少？理智占多少？情感占多少？意识占多少？在你的生命中，你必须决定，什么主导自己的人生。根据它，你行动，那没问题。有人不喜欢，他就没必要看到。
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Sadhguru
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